flGUY1 Posted October 25, 2006 Share Posted October 25, 2006 Hey guys, I have been with this girl for over 3 years now. We got engaged back in feb. and are supposed to get married in April. Lately, being the last six months, I am noticing that maybe I don't love her anymore. Pretty much anything she does or doesn't do irritates me. I'm not even interested in having sex with her anymore unless I'm really horny...And she is soo oblivious to this fact among others. We have also been living together for the past year and a half. Her parents moved off to Japan...they are military. This is where is gets kinda sticky for me. If I were to break it all off and send on her way she really wouldn't have any place to go. She could stay with friends or something I guess. I'm not evil...I still care about her well-being. Not that she cares about her own mental and physical health. I don’t want to just throw her out on the street. Due to the circumstances of our relationship, I see it as getting divorce without the paperwork. she has no family here to help her either. Basically, she would be stuck between a rock and hard place, and I'm not sure if that's her own fault or just the way things fell into place. What are your thoughts on this? Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted October 25, 2006 Share Posted October 25, 2006 Do you think it's "cold feet" you have? Why did your heart turn against her after you became engaged. Can you be more specific? Link to post Share on other sites
Mirage222 Posted October 25, 2006 Share Posted October 25, 2006 Even if she gets booted by you "to the streets" it would be 110% better for her then to marry someone who does not love her anymore. I would rather sleep on the streets then be with someone who finds me "irritating". Please FLguy, let her go and find someone who will love her for all that she *once* was to you. Link to post Share on other sites
peterparks Posted October 26, 2006 Share Posted October 26, 2006 Just be honest with her, man. She'll be able to handle your truth. Link to post Share on other sites
insomnie Posted October 26, 2006 Share Posted October 26, 2006 I defintiely think you should tell her the truth and break up with her (she does NOT deserve to marry someone who feels the way you do about her) but would it be possible for YOU to move out instead of kicking her out into the street? I mean it sounds like she's invested her whole life in you...and you are breaking her plans. It's only fair that you quietly move out of her life instead of kicking her out of hers. Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted October 26, 2006 Share Posted October 26, 2006 please continue yer regression i will close the curtains and give u lots of space and privacy in order for u to enjoy this wonderful world u have choosen i can honestly say that i have seen the absolute worst in people i am honoured u choose me truly - now i know what to watch out for happiness to you grasshopper and yer LMW POOf! lol Link to post Share on other sites
Author flGUY1 Posted October 26, 2006 Author Share Posted October 26, 2006 I can't just move out of her life. That would be the best and easiest for both of us. However, she lives with me in the house I own. Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted October 27, 2006 Share Posted October 27, 2006 flGUY1 why did your heart turn against her? You said everything she does and does not do irritates you. Do you know why? Link to post Share on other sites
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