Guest Posted October 25, 2006 Share Posted October 25, 2006 My SO and I were together off and on 20 years, steady together 14 years, 4 months ago he moved to our camper, in and out till mid Aug..than he moved out and we had no contact for 5-6 weeks..I'v started seeing someone and do like him very much...love no...So 5 ? weeks ago the ex starts coming around, calling, begging...calling family ( never called them before)...started going to a counselor...To try and get me back....How do you KNOW to go back or Not after this person hurt you like no other person could..the pain I felt over what he did to cause our break up (and cancel our wedding after all these years) is a pain I know I could never mentally or physically go threw again..I do care that he is hurting, but he didn't care when I my heart was broken and wanted to die because the pain was to much at times... Since our breakup I have not been invited to our (his) grandchildren s B-days..been able to talk to my granddaughter (his) who just turned 7 since all this started..( his daughter my granddaughter's mother feels it would confuse my granddaughter) I have been very close to her and it has hurt me not to see her. I'm so confused.....HOW do you honestly know if you should go back or keep on going living the single life he forced on me...and I have enjoyed living in my home with out him here, not having the tension is wonderful..BUT I do miss him somewhat and I wonder a lot if we could work things out.....HOW DO YOU KNOW FOR SURE ????????? Link to post Share on other sites
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