Guest Posted October 26, 2006 Share Posted October 26, 2006 hi again, i just popped over to another forum that i check out every once and i while [i don't post in the pof because u need to reg and have a prof and i don't and wouldn't just to post anyhoooooooo] someone started a thread with the question being "do women think that paying no attention to man really a way to get their attention?" does anyone actually do that? i mean, lets say u were in a long-term relationship, and you broke up with someone, and let's say, you really didn't mean to, things just got crazy and after u settled down u felt silly, and then started to make up excuses and stories, and stuff like that? this is what i saw on the other site...people actually do that... so, my question is this, how would u feel if u did something like that knowing what was at risk? and how do u think the other person would feel if they found out that? please tell me no-one in this day and age would even think about such things? Link to post Share on other sites
ankushrjf Posted October 28, 2006 Share Posted October 28, 2006 "Playing hard to get" works only in flirting, dating, casual romances or casual sex. In a relationship, you've got to do a lot of work, and be honest too. Here lies the thin line of keeping your love life exciting and also not trying to overdo it. I mean, if two people are together for a long time, or have broken up, there is simply no point in being indifferent. Both of you know each other a lot and it's the things you know you should be attracted to. When people behave like that (not giving attention), they are trying to fake something. They're trying to show that they don't care, whereas the reverse is true. But then, there are far too many type of people in this big world...and you can't be too sure about anybody. Rather than trying to guess how someone moght react in a given situation, try to think what to do next if that happens. Link to post Share on other sites
IpAncA Posted October 28, 2006 Share Posted October 28, 2006 Yes some women do play hard to get but some men might not even want to bother and move onto someone else because they don't like to play mind games. If you play hard to get then the guy might not think you like them and they move on. Personally I don't do the hard to get because if you really like a guy then you should make it easy for him to get you, not harder. Link to post Share on other sites
peterparks Posted October 29, 2006 Share Posted October 29, 2006 In real relationships, being straightforward is the key. No hidden agendas. Link to post Share on other sites
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