thanks sweetie

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man, there really seems to be a lot of confusion out there in lover land...well, i guess that's what happens with NC [LOL]

seems like a lot of couples have no idea what each other is actually doing...often it looks like someone is doing something that they are not...

 

i was talking with my old pal sweetie 26 and she mentioned to pass this alone to anyone that is having a tough time moving on...letting go

 

personally, i used 'text book' words like that probably about 4 months ago...geeee, my ex used NC and maybe she doesn't realize that i moved on a long time ago and have been in another relationship for quite a while...do u think she is mistaking my text messages and hellos as something sinister? geeee, i hope she not worrying about something like that...maybe i should tell her that i am friendzone material at best...hmm..maybe i shouldn't even bother if that's what she wants too - hmmm...maybe i'll just stop and do NC so she can decide if she wants a friend or not...yah.,..that's what i should do

 

 

Letting Go

 

To "let go" does not mean to stop caring. It means I can't do it for someone else.

 

To "let go" is not to cut myself off. It's the realization that I can't control another.

 

To "let go" is to admit powerlessness, which means the outcome is not in my hands.

 

To "let go" is not to try to change or blame another. It's to make the most of myself.

 

To "let go" is not to care for, but to care about.

 

To "let go" is not to fix, but to be supportive.

 

To "let go" is not to judge, but to allow another to be a human being.

 

To "let go" is not to be in the middle, arranging all the outcomes, but to allow others to affect their own destinies.

 

To "let go" is not to deny, but to accept.

 

To "let go" is not to nag, scold, or argue, but instead to search out my own shortcomings and correct them.

 

To "let go" is not to adjust everything to my desires, but to take each day as it comes and cherish myself in it.

 

To "let go" is not to regret the past, but to grow and live for the future.

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man, there really seems to be a lot of confusion out there in lover land...well, i guess that's what happens with NC [LOL]

seems like a lot of couples have no idea what each other is actually doing...often it looks like someone is doing something that they are not...

 

i was talking with my old pal sweetie 26 and she mentioned to pass this alone to anyone that is having a tough time moving on...letting go

 

personally, i used 'text book' words like that probably about 4 months ago...geeee, my ex used NC and maybe she doesn't realize that i moved on a long time ago and have been in another relationship for quite a while...do u think she is mistaking my text messages and hellos as something sinister? geeee, i hope she not worrying about something like that...maybe i should tell her that i am friendzone material at best...hmm..maybe i shouldn't even bother if that's what she wants too - hmmm...maybe i'll just stop and do NC so she can decide if she wants a friend or not...yah.,..that's what i should do

 

 

Letting Go

 

To "let go" does not mean to stop caring. It means I can't do it for someone else.

 

To "let go" is not to cut myself off. It's the realization that I can't control another.

 

To "let go" is to admit powerlessness, which means the outcome is not in my hands.

 

To "let go" is not to try to change or blame another. It's to make the most of myself.

 

To "let go" is not to care for, but to care about.

 

To "let go" is not to fix, but to be supportive.

 

To "let go" is not to judge, but to allow another to be a human being.

 

To "let go" is not to be in the middle, arranging all the outcomes, but to allow others to affect their own destinies.

 

To "let go" is not to deny, but to accept.

 

To "let go" is not to nag, scold, or argue, but instead to search out my own shortcomings and correct them.

 

To "let go" is not to adjust everything to my desires, but to take each day as it comes and cherish myself in it.

 

To "let go" is not to regret the past, but to grow and live for the future.

 

 

and she mentioned to pass this "along" to anyone that is having a tough time moving on...letting go

 

damn dyslexia