almostthere Posted October 26, 2006 Share Posted October 26, 2006 My bf and i enjoyed a nice evening out with dinner, drinks and dancing on Sweetest Day. I guess the holiday and drinks filled my head with thoughts. I wasnt drunk because i had been thinking about this for awhile. we went ring shopping months ago. We picked out the one i wanted but didnt do anything about it. on sweetest day I confessed that through all the hard times we have had that now that they are over i was right...he really is a wonderful. long story for those of you who dont know it. And i said how i wanted to go to the jewelry store and make a deposit. we get ten months to pay it off then however long it takes for the porposal and since we are headed that way anyway...it seemed like a good idea. He didnt say anything. i dont think. So after thinking about it sat, sun and mon I started to really give thought about adding 3 more children, a family that still loves his exwife and doesnt even know me and all the past trouble and hurt...maybe i jumped the gun. So monday he said he was going to buy me something little but expensive for christmas. he said it was about $1200. my ring is $1900 but i thought maybe he has been keeping his lunch money (?). So i asked him if that was it. he said no and it was convincing. i think it is a laptop then. his ex-stepson (thats how he refers to him) and his friends stole mine after i owned it for 2 months and saved for it forever. i said that was good and told him that the more i thought about it the more i decided that i am really undecided on the decision. Then he was disappointed. i dont know. he is so unexcited about me wanting to put money down on the ring but then he is really disappointed when i said i needed a little more time. we were supposed to have an indepth talk about this but he has been working late and getting home at 12am. i am not awake anymore. Link to post Share on other sites
Mirage222 Posted October 27, 2006 Share Posted October 27, 2006 First off - HIS (the guy your suppose to marry)'s step son STOLE your lap top? Right there would be grounds for leaving this guy. Where is the respect here? You obviously are having doubts, so listen to those thoughts.. He seems to have alot of baggage too. Do you want that for a lifetime? Good luck with your choice but I personally would not marry this one. Link to post Share on other sites
norajane Posted October 27, 2006 Share Posted October 27, 2006 Never get married to anyone unless you're sure he has your best interests at heart and will support you 100% vs. his ex-wife. Read all of stevensgirl's threads if you want a reality check - her story isn't so different from yours. This is her most recent one, but read the others, too. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t102640/ Link to post Share on other sites
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