Author RecordProducer Posted November 9, 2006 Author Share Posted November 9, 2006 Lovelorcet, don't get upset please! I actually saw a different perspective in your comment about the abortion. It's too complicated to explain it here, but I hold nothing against you. My husband is confused now, but I'll unconfuse him. I would respect my parents' opinion about my new partner, because I KNOW they want the best for me and nothing but the best. My husband wants to believe that his family wants the best for him, but that's not the case. They know he is happy with me, they know he found true love in me and yet they keep trying to turn him against me by telling him how bad I am when all I do to them is smile and act politely (until this Sunday). He sees all that and he knows more than me. But he has a hard time to digest the disappointment of realizing that they don't want him to be happy. I know it's a very hurtful feeling. For example, I've been EXTREMELY sweet and kind to his father and his wife (hubby's step-mother). While his father was fine with me, his wife has been ignoring me since a few months ago. She says "hi" in a very cold manner and then turns her head away from us and doesn't talk to me and hubby at all. Hubby noticed this and it upset him, too. Now one day at the gym I didn't see them and my father-in-law approached my gym trainer to tell him that I didn't say "hi" to them. The trainer commented that I didn't see them and the FIL said that I never see them. So they accuse ME of NOT saying "hi" when they are the ones who ignore me all the time. Now the main part: FIL tells hubby that I didn't want to say "hi" to them. What's the purpose of this if not to turn him against me and separate us? Hubby just asked me if I saw them at the gym and I said "NO." Then he asked the gym trainer what happened and he told him that I didn't see them. Hubby commented "I can't imagine my wife NOT saying 'hi'!" I know all this from the trainer; hubby never bothered to upset me or question me more. He must be asking himself also WHY and what they are trying to achieve by making up lies about his wife. You see what kind of crap I have to endure. Low, small-minded, petty, and nasty comments. I am an artist, I can't live with such bullkrap. I like smart, free-spirited, open-minded people who have high goals in life. I like people who busy creating their own destiny, not those who are busy ruining other people's lives. They must exit the picture. There is no alternative. Time works in my favor. If you find any amusement in this story then remember these few words: several years from now we will live far away from them! Link to post Share on other sites
Author RecordProducer Posted November 9, 2006 Author Share Posted November 9, 2006 My two cents. Keep the change! Link to post Share on other sites
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