thecount Posted October 31, 2006 Share Posted October 31, 2006 My G/F and I have been dating for a year and 4 months now. Saturday night she went out with her friend to a Lingerie show at herfriends house. She called me from there quite a few times. Telling me what geat things they have. so on and so forth... Sunday night comes and her ex- boyfriend called her cell. He left a message saying that he had a great time last night and can't wait to see her again. I confronted her about it and she said she wasn't with him at all, and that he's out of his mind. We have had problems with this guy before. His calls had stopped, but i just don't seem to believe her this time around. I know She called me from the party, and she did so frequently, How excited she was with her purchase, and how I'm going to love it. I just don't know what to make of this anymore. Some good advice will be nice here. I just don't want to go through this guy calling her again. She said she called her phone company to file an Harassment charges against him. They told her she would also have to go to the cops, but like i said. I'm just not buying it. HELP Please!!! Link to post Share on other sites
tikigods Posted October 31, 2006 Share Posted October 31, 2006 why hasn't she changed her number if this guy is nothing but problems? Link to post Share on other sites
Author thecount Posted October 31, 2006 Author Share Posted October 31, 2006 She feels that she shouldn't have to go out of her way. she says, "why do i have to change my number", "why can't he just leave me alone" Now she's mad at me because I went through her phone. I saw a missed call, told her someone called you--looked at who it was, because her mother and father call her all the time, and that's when I noticed her ex's number, and that he left a message. I told her I want to hear it this time. Was I out of line?, Did I invade her privecy? Link to post Share on other sites
D-Lish Posted October 31, 2006 Share Posted October 31, 2006 Did she actually bring home purchases from the party that you saw? Did she come home super late? Red flag if you ask me~ at least something looking into... for your own sanity. Do you trust your g/f wholehearedly? What do your instincts tell you? She could be telling the truth, she could be lying... Sounds super fishy to me... D Link to post Share on other sites
tikigods Posted October 31, 2006 Share Posted October 31, 2006 It would take like 5 mins. to change her number, if this REALLY bothered her she would take the time to do so, until then it sounds to me that she doesn't wantto lose contact with him enough that she would be willing to do that. Frankly I think its rather odd, and I would be worried if I was you. Link to post Share on other sites
Author thecount Posted November 1, 2006 Author Share Posted November 1, 2006 Why should I be worried? I just don't get it. If she really wanted to be with him, then why not just break up with me and be with him? Is this some girl thing that I should know about? because I really don't get it. Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted November 1, 2006 Share Posted November 1, 2006 Why should I be worried? I just don't get it. If she really wanted to be with him, then why not just break up with me and be with him? Is this some girl thing that I should know about? because I really don't get it. Monkeys. Some girls are like monkeys; They don't let go of one branch until they have a firm grip on the next. Link to post Share on other sites
tdmce Posted November 2, 2006 Share Posted November 2, 2006 I agree with all the other posts. She should change her number, it obviously is causing problems with your relationship. If she doesn't care about the guy, then she won't have a problem changing it. Either that or get her to reply to him saying "please don't contact me anymore". Trust and communication is so important is a relationship, if you don't think you can trust her then this is a big red flag and you should consider your options. Link to post Share on other sites
bLooded Posted November 5, 2006 Share Posted November 5, 2006 THeCount, Man I think she is lieing to you bro. I'll cast my advice : Trust in your feelings - they are real ! Link to post Share on other sites
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