Edward13 Posted October 31, 2006 Share Posted October 31, 2006 Well here we go .... ive been married for 13 years. She had 2 girls now 20 and 16. We had a son now 11. Her father died a few years ago ( he was the glue for her family) now both her sisters are divorced ... she started hanging with them and things started to change .. now our marrige is on the rocks ... she keeps telling me that shes not sure it this is what she wants .... on the 20th she came home and tod me that she was going out with a friend and that was fine ... no fighting .. I said sure,fine thats great... So I called her friends husband to see if we could do something and he said him and his wife were going out .... so my wife lied to me ...when I asked her about it she said she lied so we wouldnt fight because she was going out with her sister, she still left and then didnt come home untell 1:00pm on the 21st. We were suppose to go to a wedding that night and she tells me that she didnt want me to go with her. She did come home a respectible time . on the 22nd we were suppose to spend the day talking but she took off with her sister. on the 23 she came home from work and told me that she was going out with a girl friend and I told her that I had all I could take and wouldnt be there when she got home. I moved out to a friends house, I did give her a note that said I wouldnt call her but did on the 30th. My son has been spending all the time with me that he can ... were best friends .... she tells me that shes not sure If we can get back togeather but shell talk to me ... she tells me that shes not sure If she can trust me but we both lied to each other just to get out of fights .... I do love her and I do think I want her back but this will be a long road and I could use any help to do that. I did tell her that I had forgotton that she was the most important thing in my live and that I had forgotton that ... so thats where Im at and would love any help Thanks Link to post Share on other sites
Ssheena Posted October 31, 2006 Share Posted October 31, 2006 Two words - marriage counseling. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Edward13 Posted October 31, 2006 Author Share Posted October 31, 2006 Tryed that ... she wouldnt go .... I did go for awhile but saw no point if she wasnt there Link to post Share on other sites
Mythical Posted October 31, 2006 Share Posted October 31, 2006 She seems extremely immature to me. Are you sure he is not seeing someone els? Kinda strangethat she lies and that she hanging pout with her sister so much...kind aseems like a lie a teenager would use to go out with guys. Why is she wasting both of your guys's time? She doesn't give an explanation for anything?? Hole thing seems weird to me Link to post Share on other sites
Author Edward13 Posted October 31, 2006 Author Share Posted October 31, 2006 welcome to my life ... what do i do .... i do love her, It seems to me she wants to run around with her sister and like her sister wants the freedom that it brings, Im not sure if she is seeing someonelse or not. She keeps telling me that its all my fault ... Link to post Share on other sites
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