Guest Posted October 31, 2006 Share Posted October 31, 2006 Ok so my sister in law just found out shes pregant, I think shes about 8 weeks along, or somewhere around there. She already has one kid a daughter who is 9. Her first daughter wasn't that big and born around her due date. She was an average size baby. My sister in law wasn't that big either. She didn't gain alot of weight. I understand she is worried about gaining alot of weight with the second child because shes starting out this pregancy weighing a little more than the first go around. However, shes getting to be kind of anal about it. All I hear is how she better not gain alot of weight or she just couldn't stand it. She eats healthy and i told her she, probably wont gain alot and even if she does she probably wont have a big time loosing it. She nursed the first one too and will probably this one. Its an all the time thing, I hear her saying though. She will tell me what she had for lunch odr dinner and its helathy, but her portions are next to nothing. Theres a difference between being eating helathy and the right amount and just about starving the baby due to her not wanting to gain alot of weight. Like I said, shes not even big a built a person no way. I have gotten to the point now, when she brings up the pregnany weight issue I just ignore it, because I have told her and supported heer till I'm blue in the face about how she will probably be fine , and that I doubt she will be that big etc. But she refuses to listen and harpes on her weight. I just wont to say so bad, "stop being selfish." Link to post Share on other sites
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