ShadowLegion68 Posted October 31, 2006 Share Posted October 31, 2006 Ok theres this girl in my Technology class that i think likes me.One day i was doing my work and she ask me what my name was. When i told her my name she said " Oh, thats a pretty name" quickly, Then she told me her name then Said "Nice to meet you" Then i said it to her to then she went back to doing her work, Before she sat down she smiled a little at me. Shes been looking at me sometimes in class. I don't want to go up to her when i only know her name and ask her does she like me what will i look like. I just Want to Know If she Likes me Or what? Link to post Share on other sites
thelipless Posted November 1, 2006 Share Posted November 1, 2006 I think she does, she went our of her way to find out your name, not to mention she gave you a complement. Ask her if she wants to do something with you, i dont know how old you are, but either movies, maybe some ice-cream after school ? If you dont want to do that straight away, just talk to her, and ask her questions, get to know her a little better. Link to post Share on other sites
Author ShadowLegion68 Posted November 1, 2006 Author Share Posted November 1, 2006 Ok Thx, ill see if shes at school Today then figure out how ill do it Link to post Share on other sites
Author ShadowLegion68 Posted November 1, 2006 Author Share Posted November 1, 2006 Ok. Today i was thinking that i could ask her if she would like to do something this weekend or Next. But i can't build up the courage to ask her. Today I only had a enough courage to say Hi to her. And How do i start a conversation with her? Link to post Share on other sites
Author ShadowLegion68 Posted November 2, 2006 Author Share Posted November 2, 2006 Can Someone Let me know? Im planing on doing it tomorrow Link to post Share on other sites
Author ShadowLegion68 Posted November 4, 2006 Author Share Posted November 4, 2006 Ok Yesterday The Girl I like said Hey to Me and I said hey Back. Then i gave her a Note in class asking her could i get her Number, and say i would like to get to know her a little bit better. And I guess her friend thought to write something down for her saying yea. After i got the note her friend thought i didn't look at the note and told me that the girl i liked wrote it. Then The girl I Like said, "I didn't Write that" and she was smiling like she wanted to write it. She didn't say anything after class. But i told my self i was going to talk to her after school and ask if i could get her Number but i Was afraid to because she was around her friends. But For some reason i could sense her looking at me because everytime i looked at her she was looking at me, then she turned her head toward her friend. I would really like to get her Number but im afraid to try to. What should i do? It would really help if i could know before monday. Link to post Share on other sites
molimo140 Posted November 5, 2006 Share Posted November 5, 2006 Just go ahead and talk to her before/after class on Monday and ask her to have coffee or something with you. Link to post Share on other sites
clatan Posted November 6, 2006 Share Posted November 6, 2006 Ok. Sorry, I rad the rest of it now. I replied to your other post asking for more details. A lot of people say things like "Just ask her out" but I can sympathize with you. You just know her on a fist name basis and not a lot else, other than you're real interested and you think she may be too, I'm guessing? And it seems kind of premature to just ask her out when you've only just casually chatted once or twice? If so, I don't think anyone should blame you for that per se. I would be the same way. In fact I usually am. But I have a remedy for that one. Just go up and talk to her at least little first. Actually, that seems like a better strategy than asking her out of the blue. You may go out and find that you're not as interested in her as you thought? Also, she may take it as kind of weird, even if she really does dig you. I mean, here she is interested in you, then you just ask her on a date out of the blue, when you barely have even really met. Know what I mean? It could hurt or at least hinder you in getting to know her. Examples: Even though she may have been interested, she may be thinking "I like this guy, but here he's babrely spoken to me and he wants to go on a date. It could make her a little hesitant and she maybe, maybe would turn you down. I'm not saying you'll just all out "blow-it" forever. More than likely she'll say "no" even if she really would like to go out with you in hesitation, as in "Well not so fast." That could lead to a misunderstanding or something. I think it'd be best to just go talk to her at least a little first. It sure isn't going to decrease your chance of success. You want to get to know her better anyway right? That's the reason you're wanting to ask her out anyway, to get to know her better, that's the point of dates right? Talk to her a little before, after or during class. This is best because there's no expectations or awkwardness in you getting to know each other as there can often be during a date. Expecially if you manage to sort of interject when she's talking with others in the class. Just say something, anything. So where did you go to high school? (assuming you're in college. Where do you live? What other classes do you have? Boy this chapter sucks doesn't it? Things like that. Even if you have to BS a little even... make like you're having problems with something in the class and you really need her help with something. Actually, that's probably better yet! Think about it. Here's a guy, asking a girl for help. She'll think "Hey, this isn't just another guy that wants to know me because he thinks I'm attractive, he must be intrested in me because he thinks I'm smart." Plus, to quote all that psychobabble, you're showing that your a confident male that's not above asking a girl for help. Both of these would be an added turn on to her in my opinion. Then to top it off, compliment her. But not at first on her looks. Girls get compliments on their looks all the time, and to hear that it can often make you seem like any other needy guy trying to whoo her. In fact, at first, don't even act like your interested in her physically at all. That puts you in the same category as all the other guys she may or may not have turned down before. Plus, if she's a woman, she may begin to wonder if whether you find her attractive physically. That can never hurt. It only creates more mystery about you, that can only help with women. You know too, how often do guys compliment girls on how smart they are or how good they are at something? You become instantly very different from all the other guys, hence truly interesting. Your chances with her skyrocket. Just make sure it's honest and appropriate, as in i.e. don't tell her how good she is at or this or that if she's failing the class. Hope that helps. Let us know! Link to post Share on other sites
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