herenow Posted November 2, 2006 Share Posted November 2, 2006 I'm not trying to be snotty, but you might want to give advice on another forum. Maybe you can try the one that noforgiveness has moved to. I'm not giving advice, just stating the obvious. I'm just wondering why she didn't just answer his calls in the first place. Why would she turn off her phone if she wanted to talk to him? I can't give any OW advice, I don't even understand OW in the first place much less able to help you with your problems. Link to post Share on other sites
yousaveme Posted November 2, 2006 Share Posted November 2, 2006 As I said it is not a game, you do not know the whole story. My feelings and his feelings are not a game. Gosh who the heck are you to be so insistant. I completely understand not answering the phone. You know you might not understand the whole OW situtation but for those of us who are on the otherside its hard for us too. Link to post Share on other sites
yousaveme Posted November 2, 2006 Share Posted November 2, 2006 I'm not giving advice, just stating the obvious. I'm just wondering why she didn't just answer his calls in the first place. Why would she turn off her phone if she wanted to talk to him? I can't give any OW advice, I don't even understand OW in the first place much less able to help you with your problems. its funny when i stated the obvious on another thread (which was deleted) i was cruel. Sometimes we need to think, and at the same time we get upset we missed the call. Link to post Share on other sites
reneet Posted November 2, 2006 Share Posted November 2, 2006 If you have from your man since that phone incident? Link to post Share on other sites
herenow Posted November 2, 2006 Share Posted November 2, 2006 its funny when i stated the obvious on another thread (which was deleted) i was cruel. Sometimes we need to think, and at the same time we get upset we missed the call. Ok, I guess this is one of those things I will never understand. I will stop asking. Link to post Share on other sites
yousaveme Posted November 2, 2006 Share Posted November 2, 2006 Ok, I guess this is one of those things I will never understand. I will stop asking. Its one of those things we just do..we dont even understand sometimes..So how can it be explained Link to post Share on other sites
reneet Posted November 2, 2006 Share Posted November 2, 2006 Its one of those things we just do..we dont even understand sometimes..So how can it be explained If I may correct you, it's not one of those things we just do, it happened & we deal with it the best we can. We do not need to explain. Link to post Share on other sites
yousaveme Posted November 2, 2006 Share Posted November 2, 2006 If I may correct you, it's not one of those things we just do, it happened & we deal with it the best we can. We do not need to explain. Your Right..my words came out wrong... Link to post Share on other sites
Author pricillia Posted November 2, 2006 Author Share Posted November 2, 2006 If you have from your man since that phone incident? Yes this am and everything was fine, until he got upset with me, he is so quick to jump, now he won't talk to me. He called me at 8:00 this morn. I am tired right now thinking about this and keeping him from getting mad at me Link to post Share on other sites
yousaveme Posted November 2, 2006 Share Posted November 2, 2006 Yes this am and everything was fine, until he got upset with me, he is so quick to jump, now he won't talk to me. He called me at 8:00 this morn. I am tired right now thinking about this and keeping him from getting mad at me He will talk to you soon, I'm sure of it.. Link to post Share on other sites
noforgiveness Posted November 2, 2006 Share Posted November 2, 2006 Yes this am and everything was fine, until he got upset with me, he is so quick to jump, now he won't talk to me. He called me at 8:00 this morn. I am tired right now thinking about this and keeping him from getting mad at me let him be angry. He's doing that to keep the emotions high and manipulate you. Think about you. Go have some fun. Don't do this anymore. Eyes up. Look at people when you go out today and see what a huge world of men are out there. Smile and say screw you to this guy. Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted November 2, 2006 Share Posted November 2, 2006 You guys are thread stealing again, eh.... Link to post Share on other sites
Author pricillia Posted November 2, 2006 Author Share Posted November 2, 2006 he thinks that I don't take him seriously... he thinks that I don't know how he feels, that is what he said. Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted November 2, 2006 Share Posted November 2, 2006 Oops, ignore my comment, wrong thread. Sorry! Link to post Share on other sites
noforgiveness Posted November 2, 2006 Share Posted November 2, 2006 he thinks that I don't take him seriously... he thinks that I don't know how he feels, that is what he said. What about how YOU feel? He is not taking YOU seriously by keeping you on the side. Think about it and take care of yourself... Link to post Share on other sites
yousaveme Posted November 2, 2006 Share Posted November 2, 2006 he thinks that I don't take him seriously... he thinks that I don't know how he feels, that is what he said. He sounds hurt...But if his feelings are geniune he will come around..It will be okay Link to post Share on other sites
reneet Posted November 2, 2006 Share Posted November 2, 2006 Pricillia, you can call him to see if he's alright. That'll make you & him feel better. Link to post Share on other sites
Author pricillia Posted November 2, 2006 Author Share Posted November 2, 2006 yes he is definately hurt. Link to post Share on other sites
Author pricillia Posted November 2, 2006 Author Share Posted November 2, 2006 Pricillia, you can call him to see if he's alright. That'll make you & him feel better. I did left him a message... we will see. Link to post Share on other sites
noforgiveness Posted November 2, 2006 Share Posted November 2, 2006 Pricillia, you can call him to see if he's alright. That'll make you & him feel better. That's an awesome idea. Why don't you wait till dinner time when he's sitting down for a meal with his family. Oh give me a break. You are not offering her any support whatsoever by telling her to call him. She is on here hurting cause he didn't call her and then he finally does and he yells at HER and you want her to call him? Pricilla please don't call him. Have some self esteem. Don't let him yell at you and treat you like this when he is wrong. PLEASE!!!! These two offering you advice just want to see the OW win at all costs. Well it's not worth it when the biggest cost is your self esteem. Let him come to you let him apologize and then make his life hell. Link to post Share on other sites
noforgiveness Posted November 2, 2006 Share Posted November 2, 2006 yes he is definately hurt. why is he hurt? What exactly did you do to hurt him for him to yell at you? Worry about him? I am not being mean. I am trying to offer some real advice. Link to post Share on other sites
yousaveme Posted November 2, 2006 Share Posted November 2, 2006 I did left him a message... we will see. See what happens, i think he needed time to cool off.. Dont feed into the negativity that has been following ... Link to post Share on other sites
noforgiveness Posted November 2, 2006 Share Posted November 2, 2006 See what happens, i think he needed time to cool off.. Dont feed into the negativity that has been following ... It is not negativity. It is honesty. I have not said one bad thing about her. Just what she needs to think about. Link to post Share on other sites
yousaveme Posted November 2, 2006 Share Posted November 2, 2006 I hope you are getting the advise you need...We are here for your support... Link to post Share on other sites
Author pricillia Posted November 2, 2006 Author Share Posted November 2, 2006 I hope you are getting the advise you need...We are here for your support... yes I appreciate all the reply's... I am just... not sure what I am Link to post Share on other sites
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