Mydish1 Posted November 2, 2006 Share Posted November 2, 2006 So some history, i've known this girl for almost 4 years. For the first year we were pretty close and hung out a lot and got to know each other a lot. I soon transferred to another Uni and we kind of lost touch/contact. we're both single So anyway a week ago i invited her to this haunted house thing i got tickets for. I also made it clear it wasnt a date. Nothing happened, it was dark and bumpy in there and wasnt frightening. For 2 hours inside and outside of the haunted house we got slightly more intimate than we ever did in the past. But nothing of the holding hands/kissing sort. She's the only girl I've ever been with that knows how to make me laugh, and i do one hell of a job doing the same/busting on her. any time we hang out we always have fun. So Halloween night, I got a surprise call from her. she was wondering what i was up to, that if I went to the parade. She said she had a good time at the haunted house. Invited me to some paintball event that i agreed to half a month later. We do have a strong connection/trust. I can imagine being in a relationship with her. But im still young, sometimes i debate whether I should go through a bunch of bad apples before finding a nice apple in life. Or if i should just jump into a relationship with someone im comfortable with and bask in the ease of being a couple and have someone to share my life with (if not permanent then at least temporary). Also I run the risk of destroying the friendship if anything goes wrong. What do you guys think? Link to post Share on other sites
blue16 Posted November 2, 2006 Share Posted November 2, 2006 You have to go for it. How would you feel if a week from now you found out that she was dating some guy? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Mydish1 Posted November 2, 2006 Author Share Posted November 2, 2006 You have to go for it. How would you feel if a week from now you found out that she was dating some guy? I think I would be ok with it. But then I know she's not the type that randomly finds some guy to date/ have a bf. I suppose I can go either way, i mean im still young and there are plenty of fish in the sea. I can be using her to fill my loneliness, I've been out of a relationship for quite some time now, but would it be so bad? Link to post Share on other sites
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