i like this girl

[Guest]

but i have a few problems

 

one is that she says on her my space she only likes guys like 2 or 3 inches taller than her, and im taller by like 6 inches

 

second is that, im only 13, cant get a job, and my parents don't gimme alot of money a week, and so im scared i wont have the funds to take her on dates, if she ever does go out with me

 

so help

[Guest]

oh yea and shes like a year older than me

 

we're in the same year, but shes born in jan and im a december baby

 

so

 

 

that might cause some issues

[molimo140]

but i have a few problems

 

one is that she says on her my space she only likes guys like 2 or 3 inches taller than her, and im taller by like 6 inches

 

I'm sorry but that honestly made me laugh. That's probably the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard, if a girl truly likes someone they won't care how tall they are.

 

And as far as the whole money thing goes, you don't have to spend a lot of money to impress a girl.

 

Less than a year of age difference is almost nothing.

 

And...you're still extremely young. You have so much to learn and do in terms of life, and you should spend this time having fun, so take chances.

[Guest]

I'm sorry but that honestly made me laugh. That's probably the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard, if a girl truly likes someone they won't care how tall they are.

 

And as far as the whole money thing goes, you don't have to spend a lot of money to impress a girl.

 

Less than a year of age difference is almost nothing.

 

And...you're still extremely young. You have so much to learn and do in terms of life, and you should spend this time having fun, so take chances.

 

but i don't want this thing to last like 2 weeks

i have to be sure she'll say yes

and even if she says yes, where can we go without spending money?

 

and also, she lives in a diff boro so

 

it might be hard finding neutral places

[clatan]

but i have a few problems

 

one is that she says on her my space she only likes guys like 2 or 3 inches taller than her, and im taller by like 6 inches

 

second is that, im only 13, cant get a job, and my parents don't gimme alot of money a week, and so im scared i wont have the funds to take her on dates, if she ever does go out with me

 

so help

 

For one, you're assuming that women know what they want. Understand something... they don't. If she ends up not being interested in you, odds are it has nothing to do with heighth. I don't know much else about you or her but I can safely say that that's the last thing that you should worry about.

 

Think about it. Guys are generally a lot more hung up on looks that girls... would you turn down a hot brunette that asked you out because you say you like blond on your myspace account. Plus, look around in a crowd sometime at couples of all ages. You'll find that damn near every guy is AT LEAST 6 inches taller than his wife or girlfriend, if not more like a foot and a half. Think about it!

 

 

MOST IMPRTANT OF ALL. Suppose she is really picky about heighth (again 99% chance she's not)... She likes guys that are only 2 or 3 inches taller right? You're 6 inches taller than her right? So you're only out of her range by 3 inches?! Do you really think three inches is going to make a difference? Does this girl carry a tape measure around with her or something? I really doubt it, so more than likely she'll never even notice three inches anyway!

 

I can't guarantee she'll wnat to have anything to do with you, but I'd quit worrying about your heighth. It's trivial to say the least.

[Guest]

any help on my other questions?

[tmacattack]

anyone? this is the same person btw