stupidgirlbitty Posted November 4, 2006 Share Posted November 4, 2006 ok heres my story - please be patient and read it...please i went on a business trip for a couple of days a few weeks ago - i went to a house party with a friend and got chatting with this redneck guy - he was funny and we got along and that was that - no physical attraction at all. so when i came back home i added him to my msn and weve been chatting since. just chit chat about alsorts. no i live with my bf of 4 years and we just moved to canada together 20 months ago - my bf is quite paranoid and has trust issues anyway but i always think he is spying on me. so to catch him out spying on me i got the password for this guy i just met email account and i started sending emails to and from this account to my account - i know - retarted or what - what was i thinking - anyways my bf found these ( he was meant to find them that was the whole point ) but he has completely freaked out and thinks that i have now been cheating with this guy....this wasnt supposed to happen like this and now he has broken up with me and doesnt want anything to do with me - he wants to sell the house and everything. i dont know what to do - he has seen that i have access to this other email account but still doesnt beleive i sent the emails to myself - what can i do to convince him i am telling the truth .....HELP i love this man more than anything in the world and i cant lose him - not over this pretence. Link to post Share on other sites
Moose Posted November 4, 2006 Share Posted November 4, 2006 This is a fine mess you've gotten yourself into. Personally, even if you were able to prove beyond a doubt that it was you who sent the emails, I couldn't trust someone as deceptive as that ever again. I'm afraid at this point, there's not a whole lot you can do to fix this.... Link to post Share on other sites
Author stupidgirlbitty Posted November 4, 2006 Author Share Posted November 4, 2006 This is a fine mess you've gotten yourself into. Personally, even if you were able to prove beyond a doubt that it was you who sent the emails, I couldn't trust someone as deceptive as that ever again. I'm afraid at this point, there's not a whole lot you can do to fix this.... i think thats a tad harsh - how have i been deceptive ? there must be something i can do Link to post Share on other sites
Moose Posted November 4, 2006 Share Posted November 4, 2006 Sorry if it sounded harsh.....but think about it.... You took the time to email yourself in order to catch him, catching you.....that's the deception.... Knowing the trust issues your boyfriend has, and then carrying on with another guy, (regardless of how you feel about him), is exactly how you said it.....retarded..... Look at this from his point of view...... Link to post Share on other sites
IpAncA Posted November 4, 2006 Share Posted November 4, 2006 Yeah you did get yourself into a mess. Why does he think you cheated? What did you say in the e-mails? Even though you have the password to the other account, it doesn't prove that you sent them. What would you think if it was the other way around and he said that he sent them instead of the other person? Link to post Share on other sites
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