Im the ex bf that calls

[Guest]

So my ex-girlfriend is dating someone now for about 3 months, but ive been calling her a lot trying to get her back. Some times shes resistant, sometimes shes not.

 

we dated on and off for about 3 years, i broke up with her twice, the first time after i moved away for work about a 4 hour drive away but we still saw each other and got back together. and then we decided to get engaged and i told her i was gonna buy her ring but then i backed out. we even then tried to work it out after that for a while but never fully did.

 

Anyways, now shes dating someone and she takes my calls sometimes, and i tell her i love her, but she is still with this new guy. She says that i only want her back because she is with someone else now, and that he treats her like a princess. I should also mention that she knows that i had a rebound relationship with a girl and slept with her and she throws it in my face sometimes. But she had one too before we got back the second time. (although she says she never slept with the guy)

 

So i don't know what that poor guy knows but im the ex that keeps calling his girl, who i know still loves me, but is either scared to get back together with me or is trying to move on but hasn't fully yet.

 

And in case you were wondering, i love her dearly and do want her back. So what do you guys think, is she destined to come back to me or stay with the new guy?

[phyrespryte]

You broke up with her twice? And the second time you backed out on the engagement?

 

Geez! I recently got dumped and feel like my heart was ripped out and stomped on. I can't imagine how much worse it would feel to have someone break off an engagement. I'm pretty sure that she's not too excited to get involved with you again. That's some heavy stuff to deal with.

 

Are you sure you love her? How long has it been since you've broken up with her? Have you changed at all? Have you sorted out all the reasons you had for breaking up with her?

[AriaIncognito]

I'd say she'll stay with the new guy. Why go back to someone that will rip your heart out again? It's not worth it.

 

I've been burned twice by my current ex. I can't imagine there's much that would make that look like a good idea if i were with someone that treated me as you say her man is treating her.

 

If i were you, i'd move on. Quite frankly, you had her, and you blew it. I don't mean to sound harsh, but that's basically the gist of it. Same as my ex. He had me, and he too blew it. And i have no doubts that he'll come to same realization as you are with yours. And i'm hoping that I'll be with someone that treats me like a princess, when he does.

[Guest]

unfortunately, i think you'll be the one to get her back while that poor guy is gonna have his heart crushed. Its sad but thats the way the world works.

[ur mom]

just out of curiosity how did u get her back the second time? but man u broke her heart twice! im seriously not trying to belittle you but, would you give you anoyher chance?honestly.

if you r sincere about this then go for it but you better think about it long and hard. karma man karma. good luck dude.

[CosmoBella]

Wow!! well what goes around comes around and it bites you in the butt. Well, if she is smart she will stay with the new guy. Most likely she will come back to you... But DONT screw it up. A woman can take so much until she leaves you in the dark completely. She still answers your calls so that means she isn't over you. On the other hand she has a new bf, you should respect that and give her space.

Doesn't seem so much that you love her... If you did you wouldn't leave her twice. The hardest thing as a woman is the man you're engaged to left you... Don't be the obsessive ex that's not a pretty picture, tell her once and for all what you truly feel (think about it with your heart not your head) then leave it up to her.

If you really love her I hope you get her back...

If not, I hope you let her be happy being someone else's princess (all women deserve that treatment).

Best wishes.

[bluechocolate]

Why don't you try not calling her at all & see what happens? Leave her alone.

[Marcus1963]

So my ex-girlfriend is dating someone now for about 3 months, but ive been calling her a lot trying to get her back. Some times shes resistant, sometimes shes not.

 

we dated on and off for about 3 years, i broke up with her twice, the first time after i moved away for work about a 4 hour drive away but we still saw each other and got back together. and then we decided to get engaged and i told her i was gonna buy her ring but then i backed out. we even then tried to work it out after that for a while but never fully did.

 

Anyways, now shes dating someone and she takes my calls sometimes, and i tell her i love her, but she is still with this new guy. She says that i only want her back because she is with someone else now, and that he treats her like a princess. I should also mention that she knows that i had a rebound relationship with a girl and slept with her and she throws it in my face sometimes. But she had one too before we got back the second time. (although she says she never slept with the guy)

 

So i don't know what that poor guy knows but im the ex that keeps calling his girl, who i know still loves me, but is either scared to get back together with me or is trying to move on but hasn't fully yet.

 

And in case you were wondering, i love her dearly and do want her back. So what do you guys think, is she destined to come back to me or stay with the new guy?

i think you do want her because she is with another guy!!!!!!!1 by calling her you make it seem like she can come bqack to you anytime...stop calling. if the new guy is so good then she wont go back to you anyway..if he turns out to be a loser she will look for you.