Booty call question

[courtiebelle02]

So...I need some advice please.

I met this guy almost two months ago at a club. We danced and made out there on the dance floor. It was incredibly hot. Well he had to step out for a phone call and during this time, my friends got sick and we left. I thought that was it. Well i saw him again two weeks later. He ended up coming over to my place later, we made out and fooled around, but didn't have sex, although he wanted to.

 

A few days later, he comes over after his class, hangs out with me and my roommates for a couple hours. We make out a little, but do nothing more since I'm on my period. The next weekend, he comes over, we watch a movie and talk. I had lots of fun. We had sex that night. Soon I know, but he was really good and it was really difficult to say no.

 

After the sex we talk a lot, or he does since he likes to talk and I can't get a word in edgewise lol. so...he tells me to call him the next day cuz we were supposed to hang out. I do...but he's sick and was going to his parents house. he says he'll call me later, and didnt. So he calls pretty much every weekend except one when he was away doing this army thing, and I was always doing something so we couldnt see each other for about a month. He got into the habit of telling me he'd call and then never did.

 

One day I called him, left a message and he didnt call me back until the next weekend. So he called every day this past weekend until he got to see me. He came over saturday night, we hung out with my roommates and watched a movie, etc etc then had sex. he left the next morning to go to a study session, said he'd call afterward and then of course..he didnt.

My question is...is it just a booty call or does he like me at all? Can you be a booty call and like a girl too? He's so much fun and we have fun together. I know he recently broke up with his ex a few months ago, so i'm thinking he probably isn't ready for a relationship yet.

 

I'm just confused. I want to continue seeing him, I just need to let him know that I'm not ok with just being a booty call and i think i may have accidentally portrayed myself that way. I don't necessarily want a relationship, I just want to feel like I'm worth more than just sex. How do i do this without freaking him out?