I would like an opinion

[DM]

ok. I feel in love with a girl on every plane love could be catagorized into. I have loved her all my life it seems. We started, well came to the obvious agreement that we were so in love we couldn't move, at the beginning of summer. The end of summer arrived and she moved away. Knowing the rule that long distance relationships never work, we stayed together. Now that she is away I find myself in a constant rampage of trying to find some means of communication. In all my laborious tries I can never reach her. I try so hard. We both go to school and everything so.... but we do have Email. We did email daily. I still do. I can't get a reply. I need some help. I try and try and try and I never get a reply of any type. Should I say "REPLY!" and get a little domineering, or should I just keep trying? Her feelings should be placed first in any thoughts of this.

[Wiser Woman]

The sad news may be that she is drawing away from you a little if she is not replying by the only means you two have right now of communicating. Long distance relationships are very hard to maintain and since she won't reply to your e-mails it's hard for you to know where things stand. Have you tried to contact her by phone? If you've tried every means available to stay in touch with her and she is not responding you can only keep trying. It may as simple a reason as she has been very busy or as complicated as she is rethinking her relationship with you. Probably not what you want to hear but unless you can take a trip there and see her face to face, it's very hard to force someone to deal with someone else. Additionally, since her feelings are paramount to you, it's even harder to know what you should do..... Sorry I can't be more helpful - maybe someone else here has some better thoughts on this.

[experienced lady]

ok. I feel in love with a girl on every plane love could be catagorized into. I have loved her all my life it seems. We started, well came to the obvious agreement that we were so in love we couldn't move, at the beginning of summer. The end of summer arrived and she moved away. Knowing the rule that long distance relationships never work, we stayed together. Now that she is away I find myself in a constant rampage of trying to find some means of communication. In all my laborious tries I can never reach her. I try so hard. We both go to school and everything so.... but we do have Email. We did email daily. I still do. I can't get a reply. I need some help. I try and try and try and I never get a reply of any type. Should I say "REPLY!" and get a little domineering, or should I just keep trying? Her feelings should be placed first in any thoughts of this.

 

True love is always worth every conceivable effort!! Keep trying as best as you can, and be as sensitive as you seem to be now. I agree with wiser woman, you really don't know what's going on until you talk to her. Try to see her face to face if possible. Good luck!