Guest Posted November 8, 2006 Share Posted November 8, 2006 heya any advice would be greatly appreciated right now. Basically I went out with this girl for about 3 years, and 3 years ago we broke up. After about 6 months of no contact, we started being friends again. I would say we are extremely close friends now, and by some bizarre twist of fate have ended up moving in together, with 3 other people. I realise that I still have feelings for her, and we have hooked up and fooled around on numerous occasions, even though she had a long term boyfriend at the time. She knows I have feelings for her, and I'm pretty sure she has for me. Last week she broke up with her boyfriend under pretty bad circumstances, i.e. he cheated on her. Despite her knowing (i think) how I feel, last night she went out on a date with some guy she met at a party, she told us it was to get back at her ex, but this really cut me up, and I'm not great at hiding my feelings, and tried my best to conceal them. Obviously she noticed something was wrong, and has been asking me about it all day. I've told her it was nothing I couldn't handle, which brings me to my dillemma. Do I tell her exactly how I feel and risk changing our friendship (also considering we live together). Or do I keep it quiet and deal with it myself. For the record my friends despite their suspicions don't know for sure how I feel about her. I've never been good at talking about my feelings, and that was part of the reason we broke up. Any input would really help me out . Link to post Share on other sites
tdmce Posted November 8, 2006 Share Posted November 8, 2006 No don't spill your feelings for her. She is aware of how you feel, she went on a date with some new guy. Let her come to you, keep busy, go on dates with some new girls too, girls hate having what they can't have. You got too much to lose if you spill your feelings for her when you live together. Link to post Share on other sites
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