Unregi dude Posted November 8, 2006 Share Posted November 8, 2006 Hi, Im a guy who has a question for ya`ll..... If you suspected your wife or man of cheating and you confronted them with it and they told you that they love each other but havent had sex, how much smoke would you think that they were blowing up your ***? Link to post Share on other sites
Bryanp Posted November 8, 2006 Share Posted November 8, 2006 You would have to be in major denial not to believe that your wife has had sex with this guy. She tells you she loves him but she had done anything......Oh Please. You know that is totally bull. Link to post Share on other sites
Chapter2 Posted November 9, 2006 Share Posted November 9, 2006 I think it depends on what you want to believe. If you want to believe something badly enough then you will. I am a former OW (and no, I do not condone or subscribe to infidelity--regret it fully) and I know that my xMM told his wife after he was caught that he indeed loved me but that we never had sex. She is under the impression that it was an emotional affair only that lasted a year with no physical contact. It was indeed an emotional/physical affair. She is choosing to believe it even though all the signs around her are telling her she shouldn't. Sometimes its too painful to believe otherwise and I'm not sure she could justify staying with him if she did. Hi, Im a guy who has a question for ya`ll..... If you suspected your wife or man of cheating and you confronted them with it and they told you that they love each other but havent had sex, how much smoke would you think that they were blowing up your ***? Link to post Share on other sites
Freedom Now Posted November 9, 2006 Share Posted November 9, 2006 Sorry, but my story is the same. She was told that we had nothing but a close friendship. He didn't acknowledge the physical OR emotional affair. If she knew the truth, she would be destroyed. We had a very physical and emotional affair. And if he could, he would still be continuing it. But, every situation is different. Only YOU know what your gut is telling you. I think the body is equipped with mechanisms that alert us when something isn't quite right. Listen to yourself. Go with your instincts. They are rarely wrong. Link to post Share on other sites
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