Guest Posted November 9, 2006 Share Posted November 9, 2006 Ladies, what is it that wemon really want? How do i get girls to notice me? like i wear the flyiest Jordan clothes all the time, im nice, im not really that great lookin but im not half as bad as tha other boys at my school, i lift all tha time, im completely ripped, and im way athletic(im not tryin to brag but ive been told by jville fans and coatches that i could play basketball for Iowa)but i iget ineligible sometimes cuz of grades, i just cant figure out why no girls notice me. give me anything, thanks Link to post Share on other sites
Capslocked Posted November 11, 2006 Share Posted November 11, 2006 It's the same with me too. I'm pretty good looking, I have some nice abdominal muscles, I run, I'm really smart. I usually have to initiate everything with women, and it just bugs me. Link to post Share on other sites
the21yearoldvirgin Posted November 11, 2006 Share Posted November 11, 2006 Girls want a guy that blows their self esteem to -100. They want to feel like **** when they are and not around you. They want to feel like they can never get a guy that constantly makes fun of them and causes them to be depressed. At least thats what I noticed. Link to post Share on other sites
phyrespryte Posted November 11, 2006 Share Posted November 11, 2006 Girls want a guy that blows their self esteem to -100. They want to feel like **** when they are and not around you. They want to feel like they can never get a guy that constantly makes fun of them and causes them to be depressed. At least thats what I noticed. Um...no. I never wanted that. I've always wanted a guy that makes me feel good. Link to post Share on other sites
IpAncA Posted November 11, 2006 Share Posted November 11, 2006 Just because you look good in clothes or wear some top brands, doesn't mean your going to get anyone. Sure you may have the physical appearance down pat but you need to have the other things that women want as well. There is more that women want besides how good you look. Link to post Share on other sites
Loserdude Posted November 11, 2006 Share Posted November 11, 2006 Ladies, what is it that wemon really want? How do i get girls to notice me? like i wear the flyiest Jordan clothes all the time, im nice, im not really that great lookin but im not half as bad as tha other boys at my school, i lift all tha time, im completely ripped, and im way athletic(im not tryin to brag but ive been told by jville fans and coatches that i could play basketball for Iowa)but i iget ineligible sometimes cuz of grades, i just cant figure out why no girls notice me. give me anything, thanks You are way way way too hung up on your looks and appearance. You mention 5 visual things and 1 personality aspect ("im nice"). Maybe you should focus on something else? Something a little more of substance than being ripped. Many women I know do not like this in a man. They tell me it indicates that he is way too into himself. And since you're asking, I mean this only constructively, learn how to spell. Ito doesn't really bother me (I know I'm sounding like an old fart) but if you want to appeal to women (and people in general) stop spelling "I'm" as "im" etc. I'm not trying to give you a hard time, but it's just some thoughts. I posted this topic on craigslist once and many women agreed. Sure girls like 'hot' guys, but I think you should also understand that women have brains and intelligence and perhaps you could challenge yourself a little by trying to appeal to them on that way. Link to post Share on other sites
Green Posted November 11, 2006 Share Posted November 11, 2006 Girls probably do like you just invite some of them to join you for a night on the town and I'm sure you'll get some takers. just be cool and confident when you ask and make sure to ask every cute chick you meet for their numbers and stuff and in no time u'll understand the way things work young romeo. Link to post Share on other sites
ddnnee Posted November 11, 2006 Share Posted November 11, 2006 girls want $. they also want a guy who is a super jerk and ignore them. girls love that challenge. they like to work for the attention. guys who pamper girls, treat them nice, or worship them will end up cheated on or dump because "he's just too nice". Link to post Share on other sites
IpAncA Posted November 12, 2006 Share Posted November 12, 2006 girls want $. they also want a guy who is a super jerk and ignore them. girls love that challenge. they like to work for the attention. guys who pamper girls, treat them nice, or worship them will end up cheated on or dump because "he's just too nice". Now that is not true. Link to post Share on other sites
norajane Posted November 12, 2006 Share Posted November 12, 2006 Um...no. I never wanted that. I've always wanted a guy that makes me feel good. Isn't that the truth? It's so simple... Women are attracted to men who make them feel great, hot, sexy, smart, beautiful. When you see that fat, balding guy walking along with a lovely lady and you can't figure out what she sees in him, I know some of you think he must be loaded. But, no - she's with him because he makes her feel like a rock star. Link to post Share on other sites
CurvyGurl Posted November 12, 2006 Share Posted November 12, 2006 Just like men, I believe that women have no earthly idea of what they want. They could have a list a mile long, find a man with all of that, and still not like the man, even though he satisfied all of the requirements. Honestly, we know it when we see it. Sometimes it takes a while to see that someone we wouldn't normally like is completely perfect for us. Be the best YOU that can and live your life. Dont try to conform to some woman's endless meaningless list. That list will change with the wind, and it won't be 'you'. Link to post Share on other sites
SmoochieFace Posted November 13, 2006 Share Posted November 13, 2006 Now that is not true. I dunno about that... I see lots of stories here and on other sites about guys who have been dumped for the reasons DDNNEE cited. Reality is reality and it cannot be denied. Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted November 13, 2006 Share Posted November 13, 2006 I dunno about that... I see lots of stories here and on other sites about guys who have been dumped for the reasons DDNNEE cited. Reality is reality and it cannot be denied. Nope. There's reality and there's perception. A bitter person who considers himself 'nice' and is ticked off that a woman chose another guy over him will of course think the other guy is a 'jerk'. There are guys who will seem to be interested in women and who will lead them on and then start 'ignoring' them - the women will keep hoping (just as men will) that the initial interest is still there. So it's not the bad behaviour that they like, but rather the good behaviour they first saw and that they wish would return. Nobody 'loves' to be ignored. Everybody hates it but puts up with it hoping it will change. And I've been pursued by a guy who I'm sure would tell you was 'nice'. But treating someone nicely doesn't make you a good match for someone. He had a lot of issues I didn't want to have to deal with so all the roses and perfume didn't mean a thing. You have to understand that it's not about how you look or if you're 'nice' but WHO YOU ARE. Are you smart, funny, decent, honourable? Are you FUN? But how many guys who are either dumped or who can't get a woman examine themselves to see if maybe they need to work on character, personality, and attitude? Nooooo. They blame the 'bitches' or the 'jerks'. Anyone but themselves. The rest of them pick 'hot' women who mistreat them and then whine because they chose with their groins rather than with their brains. Here's news: if you're that fantastic, you wouldn't have been dumped. If you are fantastic and choose badly, then it's on you to wise up. Link to post Share on other sites
lindya Posted November 13, 2006 Share Posted November 13, 2006 Ladies, what is it that wemon really want? How do i get girls to notice me? like i wear the flyiest Jordan clothes all the time, im nice, im not really that great lookin but im not half as bad as tha other boys at my school, i lift all tha time, im completely ripped, and im way athletic(im not tryin to brag but ive been told by jville fans and coatches that i could play basketball for Iowa)but i iget ineligible sometimes cuz of grades, i just cant figure out why no girls notice me. give me anything, thanks I'm sure Jordan clothes are great (what are Jordan clothes, and should I care?) and I'm convinced that your muscles are nicely firm...but who are you? What sort of things make you fun to spend time with? What are the things that friends/family members respect about you? There's no set type of man that women want, but generally we want to be around the kind of man who is relaxing and enjoyable to be around...just as, I'm sure, men want to be around women who they find fun and relaxing to spend time with. Link to post Share on other sites
IpAncA Posted November 13, 2006 Share Posted November 13, 2006 I dunno about that... I see lots of stories here and on other sites about guys who have been dumped for the reasons DDNNEE cited. Reality is reality and it cannot be denied. Ok I see what your saying and some women do like that kind of stuff but I don't think that they want someone who ignores them or disrespects them. Maybe I'm wrong there too. but I don't think they wanted to be in a relationship like that intentionally. I guess it just depends on what women want and I say that if women want their guy a certain way and they get that and then are not happy then they shouldn't really complain. Kind of like you got what you asked for IMO. Link to post Share on other sites
SmoochieFace Posted November 14, 2006 Share Posted November 14, 2006 Are you smart, funny, decent, honourable? Are you FUN? I take it that you are asking this rhetorically as this thread isn't about me personally but just for the record... yes, I am all of the above... DEPENDING ON THE WOMAN. SOME women will find me all of those things whereas others will see differently. Here's news: if you're that fantastic, you wouldn't have been dumped. Sorry, but I disagree with that. You are inferring that there are no women who dump 'fantastic' guys as a result of their OWN issues. Link to post Share on other sites
lindya Posted November 14, 2006 Share Posted November 14, 2006 Sorry, but I disagree with that. You are inferring that there are no women who dump 'fantastic' guys as a result of their OWN issues. That's correct, my little piebald rabbit. Guest, sh*t - including getting dumped - happens to good people sometimes. Coming onto a site like this and suggesting otherwise is perhaps a little insensitive. Link to post Share on other sites
SmoochieFace Posted November 14, 2006 Share Posted November 14, 2006 That's correct, my little piebald rabbit. Guest, sh*t - including getting dumped - happens to good people sometimes. Coming onto a site like this and suggesting otherwise is perhaps a little insensitive. Arthur thanks you. Yep, the saying 'bad things happen to good people' definitely applies. What really sucks is when 'good things happen to bad people'. Link to post Share on other sites
luvtoto Posted November 14, 2006 Share Posted November 14, 2006 I think every woman's needs are different. One woman may want a guy with tattoo's all over his body.. another may like a man with lots of muscles.. One likes hairy guys, another likes guys that shave everything.. another woman may like a guy that is sensitive, another a good listener. I could go on and on. It's really up to each individual woman. Link to post Share on other sites
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