Marcus1963 Posted November 9, 2006 Share Posted November 9, 2006 We live in different states and i want to live closer to my little sister,i miss my cousins too, and now she will have another baby. i'm happy for them. The salary is good,but my sister told me if you' re going to interfere with my marriage then dont move!!! i was like wow, wtf! Her husband is often away and he said it would be great to have me nearby, should I accept the job? Link to post Share on other sites
a4a Posted November 9, 2006 Share Posted November 9, 2006 Hey your sister sounds pretty practical and to the point. Is there some history you left out of the post as to why she would state this so clearly to you? Working for family members can be tough....... you probably will not be treated like a reg. employee that could be good or bad. Link to post Share on other sites
norajane Posted November 9, 2006 Share Posted November 9, 2006 Why would she think you'd be interfering with her marriage? Is there more to this story? Has her husband ever made a pass at you? Have you ever flirted with him? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Marcus1963 Posted November 9, 2006 Author Share Posted November 9, 2006 Working for family members can be tough........He wouldnt be my boss directly. Why would she think you'd be interfering with her marriage? Is there more to this story? Has her husband ever made a pass at you? Have you ever flirted with him?I am a guy! I did interfere about something and i posted about it here.......i wouldnt interfere,i'm just afraid that she doesnt realy want me around....we are very close otherwise so i dont get it i am starting to think that she ios doing something stupid and doesnt want me to see it Link to post Share on other sites
norajane Posted November 9, 2006 Share Posted November 9, 2006 Ok, I found your old thread...you didn't want her to get pregnant in the first place because you were worried what would happen if they divorced...you didn't want her homeless and penniless with another child. Under the circumstances, yes, I can see why she would tell you not to move if you're going to interfere in the marriage! You have no reason to believe they aren't in love and/or are heading for a divorce! She might not want negative vibes like that around...or might be worried that you'll be aggressive/abrasive with her H. I don't see any reason for you to think she is doing something stupid she doesn't want you to see - that's another suspicious, negative vibe on your part. So, unless you can reign that in, your sister is probably right. Link to post Share on other sites
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