Girlfriend. Flirting/Affection

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Well I guess I will get right to my problem. My girlfriend has alot of guy friends, some of which she likes to tell them she loves them (Friend Love of course) and she says that she "Misses" them "Soooo Much".

 

Now what I'm getting at is: Is what she's doing constitute as flirting? I don't really think of I have problem with letting her say "Love ya" knowing it's friend love. It's just that I don't get the same kind of attention. In fact the guy she says "Love ya" to and "Miss you soo much" is her old crush. I trust her, though it Seems as though it wouldn't be right.

 

I would like her to tell me that She "Misses me soo much". It hurts when my girlfriend doesn't show me affection appropriate to the degree of our relationship, especially when I'm falling so much in love with her.

Could this just be jealousy? I'm not sure.

And how should a girlfriend treat a boyfriend in public, speaking in terms of affection? It seems she doesn't express it much, and tends to ignore me.

 

Please, all feedback is much appreciated. Thank you for your time

[Bryanp]

Reread your own letter. I would seriously reconsider falling in love with a girl like this. She will breed insecurity within you. Imagine the type of person you would really wish to have as a girlfriend and what characteristics she would have. Your description of your girlfriend sounds like a real turnoff. She is the type that needs lots of attention from other males. In the long run it is a recipie for disaster when it comes to a serious relationship. You can and should do better. I wish you luck.