Capslocked Posted November 11, 2006 Share Posted November 11, 2006 And yes I know the only way to be sure is to ask her out myself. There is this really (in my opinion) cute girl. I have her in two classes, and I've bridged the gap of making normal conversation with her. Hell, I even have her phone number. I'm even in a club with her. I help her study for history. We talk and we laugh. I think she knows I'm hitting on her a little . I've hitched rides off her a few times, we had good discussions in her car... I'd like things to progress to the next level, but I don't know if that's what she wants, she hasn't ever mentioned a boyfriend. I don't want to go on a date and smother her with kisses and other obsessive crap like that, my last relationship was pretty much all about sex (I'm sure some guys would call it the perfect relationship, they're wrong.). I really just want to get to know her better over dinner or coffee or something. How do I ask this without completely ruining the friendship? I want to be more important in her life. Link to post Share on other sites
MikeC Posted November 11, 2006 Share Posted November 11, 2006 Tell her that you value her friendship and ask her if she just wants to be friends. As long as you state your value of the friendship first, you should be ok. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Capslocked Posted November 12, 2006 Author Share Posted November 12, 2006 I kind of know the answer to this question, but I guess your right, the only way to do it is to get right in there and just pop the question of want to hang out some time... Man I'm such a coward sometimes. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Capslocked Posted November 15, 2006 Author Share Posted November 15, 2006 Sorry, to double post, but with all the bad things that happened to me. I just can't stop smiling. You know why? Because she likes me back, and I know it for sure now. Link to post Share on other sites
Reynolds Posted November 16, 2006 Share Posted November 16, 2006 I really adore a girl who is incidently one of my best friends. I have knwon her for three years now and have completely and utterly fallen for her but I'm not brave enough to break it to her, although I have dropped many hints. There is a lot of competition for her, and I suspect she knows I love her deeply, more so than those who are only after her for a sexual relationship without any ties. I am certain that there is no one else who I would rather want to spend my life with, I am sure that she is the one I love and possibly the only girl I will ever truly love. I need advice on what to do in this situation and how I can come through it as best as possible. Thank you! Link to post Share on other sites
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