Guest Posted November 11, 2006 Share Posted November 11, 2006 i need to know what i need to do to get a girlfriend, alright im 15 6ft 3in 185lbs malado, im tha most ripped person in my class, im athletic,(not to brag im like tha 3rd best athlete in tha high school and im a sophomore), i always wear the freshest jordan stuff, im shy(dont know if thats good or bad)I'm not the best lookin person, but im not half as bad as tha other kids n my school.Some bad things(witch i think is why no girls at my school would wanna go out wit me) is ive been arrested, and currently have not tha best grades, but im trying to change things around cuz i recently figured out that i could go to like a d1 college for bball.im not really that social(i don't talk to that many people unless im spoken to. anything helps Link to post Share on other sites
MikeC Posted November 11, 2006 Share Posted November 11, 2006 First of all, and I'm speaking from personal experience, your 'gear' or 'ripped body' alone will not attract females. I mean, it will, but not in the sense that they are attracted to you. Honestly, just be yourself and talk. Really, after all of the mind games we play are over with, it really just comes down to doing what you fear. I did and it is so much better than worrying about what to do next. Just do it. Link to post Share on other sites
SoundedPlum Posted November 12, 2006 Share Posted November 12, 2006 If you want a girl, stop focusing on your looks because if all you try to do is attract them with muscles and being "ripped", you'll get some pretty dumb/shallow chicks that'll leave you the minute you gain a pound or two or stop rocking the "freshest" gear out there. Work on your personality and sense of humor... that's what ultimately turns a loser in aluminum foil into a knight in shining armor. Be kind, respectful and courteous. Bring chivalry back to life and open a few doors for ladies and carry their books or something! Be social and be YOURSELF. Plus, you're only 15. I didn't get my REAL boyfriend until I was about to be a senior in high school! (I'm 17 right now, btw) From a girl's point of view, one of the most important things a guy has to be able to do is make me LAUGH... or at least smile. Link to post Share on other sites
Loserdude Posted November 12, 2006 Share Posted November 12, 2006 i need to know what i need to do to get a girlfriend, alright im 15 6ft 3in 185lbs malado, im tha most ripped person in my class, im athletic,(not to brag im like tha 3rd best athlete in tha high school and im a sophomore), i always wear the freshest jordan stuff, im shy(dont know if thats good or bad)I'm not the best lookin person, but im not half as bad as tha other kids n my school.Some bad things(witch i think is why no girls at my school would wanna go out wit me) is ive been arrested, and currently have not tha best grades, but im trying to change things around cuz i recently figured out that i could go to like a d1 college for bball.im not really that social(i don't talk to that many people unless im spoken to. anything helps What's "malado"? Is that a bastardization of the word, "mulatto"? Link to post Share on other sites
oh_what_am_I_doing Posted November 13, 2006 Share Posted November 13, 2006 i always wear the freshest jordan stuff Well at least you know what's important! i don't talk to that many people unless im spoken to. Ok, seriously, here's your problem. You can't get girls unless you talk to them. Plain and simple. Your fresh Jordan gear isn't important. Your athletic ability might be a good angle to play with the ladies, though (It wouldn't have worked on me, but it might work on some females). You need to emphasize your strengths and build up your weaknesses. And it seems the weakness which needs your attention right now is communication. My first "puppy" love and I met when we were 13 and dated on and off until we were sophomores. We met in Health class, where we sat next to each other. I developed a huge crush on him because he was so nice. I don't remember what clothes and shoes he had. I remember that verbal and mental connection we felt. That is a very strong connection. Years later we bumped into each in college and the feelings and memories came flooding back. Good luck, but also remember you're very young yet. There's plenty of time for the ladies! Keep working on the school work. Ultimately, ladies want a man who can provide for her (caveman instinct or something!). For me and many other women, that means brains is important! Link to post Share on other sites
Mary3 Posted November 14, 2006 Share Posted November 14, 2006 You could have *fresh gear* but if you don't have any personality then the ladies are going to move on. Try being yourself and being friendly. Try being funny. Make her laugh. Ripped bodies are nice but to some ladies that just means you live in the gym..... Link to post Share on other sites
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