Touche Posted November 13, 2006 Share Posted November 13, 2006 It isn't name calling if it is true.. it is mearly putting a label on the truth Whose truth? Ha ha! Wow, that's a stretch! So what if A4A's "truth" is that her H was acting like a pussy at that time? Why can't she say it? Only you can I guess! Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted November 13, 2006 Share Posted November 13, 2006 Whose truth? Ha ha! Wow, that's a stretch! So what if A4A's "truth" is that her H was acting like a pussy at that time? Why can't she say it? Only you can I guess! No need to start anything Touche.. you know you are refering to a falling out that you and I had on LS.. Don't bring old stuff into someone elses thread Shame on you for trying to censer me Link to post Share on other sites
JackJack Posted November 13, 2006 Share Posted November 13, 2006 I will admit my g/f and I have called each other names before. Sometimes its just picking, sometimes its not. Name calling, is name calling. But sometimes people paint it however they see fit for their situation. Link to post Share on other sites
Touche Posted November 13, 2006 Share Posted November 13, 2006 No need to start anything Touche.. you know you are refering to a falling out that you and I had on LS.. Don't bring old stuff into someone elses thread Shame on you for trying to censer me Ok, fine whatever. I don't want to hijack A's thread. Just had to point out the hypocrisy there. I'm not trying to censor you (note spelling please). Fine go around "calling them as you 'em." Or pointing out the "truth." Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted November 13, 2006 Share Posted November 13, 2006 Just had to point out the hypocrisy there. You don't know me or my truth.. so for you to pick out any hypocrisy in my life is impossible.. Me speaking about my stand on name calling has NOTHING do do with you or LS.. It has to do with me and my life..so get over yourself Now how about sticking to the thread topic.. Link to post Share on other sites
Author a4a Posted November 13, 2006 Author Share Posted November 13, 2006 You don't know me or my truth.. so for you to pick out any hypocrisy in my life is impossible.. Me speaking about my stand on name calling has NOTHING do do with you or LS.. It has to do with me and my life..so get over yourself Now how about sticking to the thread topic.. Now stop being a biotch!! :p What was the topic.... oh yeah A4A helped H find his balls and stand up to his nutso boss buddy. Link to post Share on other sites
Touche Posted November 13, 2006 Share Posted November 13, 2006 You don't know me or my truth.. so for you to pick out any hypocrisy in my life is impossible.. Me speaking about my stand on name calling has NOTHING do do with you or LS.. It has to do with me and my life..so get over yourself Now how about sticking to the thread topic.. Oh yes. How one treats people HERE says EVERYTHING about how one treats others in real life. Most people aren't ONE way here and an entirely different way in real life. Anger management courses anyone? Now how about sticking to the thread topic? I've BEEN on topic. A4A treats people with respect on here. As I'm sure she does in her REAL life with her husband. Link to post Share on other sites
JackJack Posted November 13, 2006 Share Posted November 13, 2006 What was the topic.... oh yeah A4A helped H find his balls and stand up to his nutso boss buddy. Don't you ever get tired of helping your poor hubby find his balls? Seems like he looses them alot. And don't tell me he doesn't, because in most of your posts it seems he doesn't have any or lost them somewhere along with way. Or you are helping him carry those heavy balls he has at least. Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted November 13, 2006 Share Posted November 13, 2006 But I expect to stay within the boundaries and limitations set by my H, fulfill the H's expectations and I expect the same or I simply point out that the boundary has or is starting to be violated. Indeed. And does he do the same? Has he ever? Link to post Share on other sites
Author a4a Posted November 13, 2006 Author Share Posted November 13, 2006 Now how about sticking to the thread topic? I've BEEN on topic. A4A treats people with respect on here. As I'm sure she does in her REAL life with her husband. yep I do. Like tonight I am at the farm, half ass working, he will work 12 hours, come home with my choc. and smokes. I say "make my dinner you pussy biotch". He will make my dinner and then I say "thanks for dinner asswhole, this looks pretty good". Now rub my feet you limp weinered retarded goat molestor! :rolleyes: :lmao: Link to post Share on other sites
Touche Posted November 13, 2006 Share Posted November 13, 2006 I don't agree with you Jack. I know in my own marriage there have been times when my husband would tell me to not wimp out on something. And I've done the same with him. We kind of keep each other balanced that way. Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted November 13, 2006 Share Posted November 13, 2006 Now stop being a biotch!! :p Sorry A4.. I was calling her out on her crap.. I can't stand when someone makes a post that has a 3rd party meaning to it.. She needs to stop.. I'm done hijacking .. Sorry Link to post Share on other sites
JackJack Posted November 13, 2006 Share Posted November 13, 2006 I don't agree with you Jack. I know in my own marriage there have been times when my husband would tell me to not wimp out on something. And I've done the same with him. We kind of keep each other balanced that way. Its not a problem that you don't agree Touche. Its all opinons here anyway. I understand what you are saying. And yes its ok to help one see the errors of their ways (help them grow balls) or however one wants to put it. But it's quite another to do it ALL the time or at least a good part of the time. Be a ball carry to much and then when you let the balls go, they stand around in oblivian going, "duh, I am supossed to do what?" "WTF, where did my ball carry go?" Link to post Share on other sites
Touche Posted November 13, 2006 Share Posted November 13, 2006 Sorry A4.. I was calling her out on her crap.. I can't stand when someone makes a post that has a 3rd party meaning to it.. She needs to stop.. I'm done hijacking .. Sorry I don't blame you for not liking it. I wouldn't like the truth to be pointed out either If I were in your clown shoes. It's ugly isn't it? I "need" to stop? HA HA! Are you SURE you're done hijacking now? Good! Sorry, A. Forgive me. Link to post Share on other sites
Author a4a Posted November 13, 2006 Author Share Posted November 13, 2006 What was the topic.... oh yeah A4A helped H find his balls and stand up to his nutso boss buddy. Don't you ever get tired of helping your poor hubby find his balls? Seems like he looses them alot. And don't tell me he doesn't, because in most of your posts it seems he doesn't have any or lost them somewhere along with way. Or you are helping him carry those heavy balls he has at least. I don't know Jack but your new interest in my H's nutsack should be on its own thread........ :lmao: Really for some it is hard to achieve a balance between not being an asswhole ( hint hint) and not being a doormat. That is where he is at with his friend. Does favors and gets crapped on. It is rather difficult for him to stand up to his friend at this time. His friend is acting like a nut and his father is probably a week away from death. But thanks for the reminder that my H is pretty awesome in compared to men with the need (insecurity) to thump their balls in public for recognition and acceptance of other men. Link to post Share on other sites
JackJack Posted November 13, 2006 Share Posted November 13, 2006 I don't know Jack but your new interest in my H's nutsack should be on its own thread........ :lmao: Really for some it is hard to achieve a balance between not being an asswhole ( hint hint) and not being a doormat. That is where he is at with his friend. Does favors and gets crapped on. It is rather difficult for him to stand up to his friend at this time. His friend is acting like a nut and his father is probably a week away from death. But thanks for the reminder that my H is pretty awesome in compared to men with the need (insecurity) to thump their balls in public for recognition and acceptance of other men. :lmao: :lmao: Classic! Link to post Share on other sites
Author a4a Posted November 13, 2006 Author Share Posted November 13, 2006 Its not a problem that you don't agree Touche. Its all opinons here anyway. I understand what you are saying. And yes its ok to help one see the errors of their ways (help them grow balls) or however one wants to put it. But it's quite another to do it ALL the time or at least a good part of the time. Be a ball carry to much and then when you let the balls go, they stand around in oblivian going, "duh, I am supossed to do what?" "WTF, where did my ball carry go?" True Jack. Not everyone is as perfect as you ....... consider this though.... the women in your av.pic looks like Mr. Ed in drag. Now how did that make you feel? Attacking ones spouse is not productive nor really attractive is it? (do you get it?) See you used about as much tact posting here as I did with that comment I just made about the drag queen in the chair next to you. Btw I really did not look at the pic, but just trying to see if you can understand empathy at all...... I doubt it. Link to post Share on other sites
JackJack Posted November 13, 2006 Share Posted November 13, 2006 Now how did that make you feel? Attacking ones spouse is not productive nor really attractive is it? (do you get it?) You are right a4a, I will leave you to that of your own spouse. I never meant any harm any of my questions or answers to you in any of your posts. It amazes me how you come to ask for advice, or maybe just to vent but then when somene tells you somethiing or steps on your toes about something you don't want to hear, you laugh it off with your lovely smileys or you just tell them off. In reference to my first post to you on this thread you shot me down, putting manby smileys I guess becasue it was so damn funny:lmao: but if someone makes a comment you about you carrying or helping to carry your hubbys balls, because he can't seem to do it without help, you get pissy. Kind of like you can dish it but can't it syndome. And No I never said I was perfect, far from it just as everyone is not perfect. Have you ever stopped to think that maybe you come across as that way yourself? You whine, bitch and moan about your hubby but then if someone says something about the situation you damn them to hell for doing so? Like I said, you're right, and I'm sorry if it wrinkled your feathers. *Waves the white flag! I surrender, carry on darling. * Link to post Share on other sites
amaysngrace Posted November 13, 2006 Share Posted November 13, 2006 Honestly it is never his way or my way ..... it is our way. "If you wish to know the mind of a man, listen to his words" - Confucius Link to post Share on other sites
Author a4a Posted November 13, 2006 Author Share Posted November 13, 2006 Now how did that make you feel? Attacking ones spouse is not productive nor really attractive is it? (do you get it?) You are right a4a, I will leave you to that of your own spouse. I never meant any harm any of my questions or answers to you in any of your posts. It amazes me how you come to ask for advice, or maybe just to vent but then when somene tells you somethiing or steps on your toes about something you don't want to hear, you laugh it off with your lovely smileys or you just tell them off. In reference to my first post to you on this thread you shot me down, putting manby smileys I guess becasue it was so damn funny:lmao: but if someone makes a comment you about you carrying or helping to carry your hubbys balls, because he can't seem to do it without help, you get pissy. Kind of like you can dish it but can't it syndome. And No I never said I was perfect, far from it just as everyone is not perfect. Have you ever stopped to think that maybe you come across as that way yourself? You whine, bitch and moan about your hubby but then if someone says something about the situation you damn them to hell for doing so? Like I said, you're right, and I'm sorry if it wrinkled your feathers. Really Jack a question to imply that my H lies to me and wants to hang out with his friend is funny..... very funny to me because if you understood my H he does not want to hang out with him at all any more. They are complete opposites. And that is one thing my H would never ever dream of doing is to lie to me about such a thing. No I don't get pissy with good advice, even Art said the 'pussy' word would upset him, although in our case it does not apply I appreciated his view indeed, good point he made. But saying my H is basically a loser is not productive advice or thoughtful. I don't think I even asked for advice, but am worried about this new turn of events indeed. This job loss could set things back until Feb. And actually I am quite proud of the H for standing up for what he wants. If it took a little push from me or a long conversation to let him see the options and outcomes ........ so be it. I never claimed to be perfect far far from it. I apologize and admit when I am wrong, but I do take the time to try to think about how someone may feel before I make a comment to them if the topic is of a delicate nature. Link to post Share on other sites
Author a4a Posted November 13, 2006 Author Share Posted November 13, 2006 "If you wish to know the mind of a man, listen to his words" - Confucius wtf are you talking about willis? Link to post Share on other sites
amaysngrace Posted November 13, 2006 Share Posted November 13, 2006 wtf are you talking about willis? just pointing out the obvious, to those who CAN'T see, buckwheat! Link to post Share on other sites
Author a4a Posted November 13, 2006 Author Share Posted November 13, 2006 just pointing out the obvious, to those who CAN'T see, buckwheat! Well obviously I am a tarded amoeba cuz I am lost on it..... also sitting here on hold with really really bad music playing in my ear.... why do they do that?..... why! I think it is some weird ass orchestrated version of Bad to the Bone. Link to post Share on other sites
JackJack Posted November 13, 2006 Share Posted November 13, 2006 Really Jack a question to imply that my H lies to me and wants to hang out with his friend is funny..... very funny to me because if you understood my H he does not want to hang out with him at all any more. They are complete opposites. And that is one thing my H would never ever dream of doing is to lie to me about such a thing. No I don't get pissy with good advice, even Art said the 'pussy' word would upset him, although in our case it does not apply I appreciated his view indeed, good point he made. But saying my H is basically a loser is not productive advice or thoughtful. I don't think I even asked for advice, but am worried about this new turn of events indeed. This job loss could set things back until Feb. And actually I am quite proud of the H for standing up for what he wants. If it took a little push from me or a long conversation to let him see the options and outcomes ........ so be it. I never claimed to be perfect far far from it. I apologize and admit when I am wrong, but I do take the time to try to think about how someone may feel before I make a comment to them if the topic is of a delicate nature. Wow, where was my head today then? I never IMPLIED anything, you must have read to much into my question asking. Because that was not my intention, but you took it like that. So don't get defense when someone takes your replies or answers as being pissy then if thats not really how you intended to come across. I bet theres been alot of time people took something the wrong way you said, and your reply may have been met to be funny or in a joking manner, correct? Mine wasn't intended to be funny when I orginally asked you those questions, I was being serious , but not in the sense that I was IMPLYING anything. So, bottom line is, I'm sorry if you THOUGHT I was implying somethign that I wasn't. You will probably see or takes things how you want to anyway. Once again, I wave the white flag. I'm done with trying to make my point to you. You probably wont get my point just as I might not get yours, some things are just not worth going over and over and over again, this is one of those times. Link to post Share on other sites
amaysngrace Posted November 13, 2006 Share Posted November 13, 2006 also sitting here on hold with really really bad music playing in my ear.... why do they do that?..... why! I think it is some weird ass orchestrated version of Bad to the Bone. It's better than getting a call in and they tell you to wait, and then play the shi*ty music, don't cha think? Link to post Share on other sites
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