Guest Posted November 13, 2006 Share Posted November 13, 2006 Does anyone have any answers to this topic? My question revolves around the level of experience one will have. My wife is an adult child of a narcissist and seems to have trouble really letting go and experiencing herself. She does have orgasms,but she always controls them down. It feels like her body is responding, but she won't allow the full ride. She has been riddled with getting out from her mother's control and has always been prone to taking less in life than she should. How can I help her feel comfortable owning her feelings? This is combined with a religious upbringing which she shed many years ago............ Link to post Share on other sites
Wantingtogetitright Posted November 14, 2006 Share Posted November 14, 2006 the fact that she is able to orgasm is a huge step. Just give her time and understanding. Reassure her when she is climaxing, tell her you love her at that point, tell her you love seeing her succumb etc. Let her know how much it pleases you to see her that way, this way it is her adding to your pleasure rather than just her own pleasure sort of thing. Link to post Share on other sites
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