Guest Posted November 14, 2006 Share Posted November 14, 2006 okay where do i start, i am dating this guy for almost two years now, but i have known him for about 10 years now. Before we started dating we kept in contact with each other (despite the distance between us) over that time, and yes we dated other people, but never knew we love each other that much until i moved closer to him. well before we started dating he was dating this girl for six years, and i just so happened to know her and even grew up with her. My problem is i just don't like her, and the things she did that hurt my boyfriend (when they were dating). Not to mention she is pretty, funny and there is really nothing to hate about her but why am i not convinced that he is not over her, and why do i hate her so much.?? i know this won't be such a big deal if i didn't know who she was but i do, so why can't i get over the fact that she was with him?? can anyone help me?? Link to post Share on other sites
greyskies Posted November 22, 2006 Share Posted November 22, 2006 I am dating someone who has been caught in the act with his ex and yes he is obsessed with her. She is a ugly skinny dope addict that has put him in jail and cost him lots of money. I on the other hand treat him like gold but yet he keeps running back for these rediculious crazy fights and romps in the sack I believe. He claims that he cant get an erection when he sees her but he cant help but see her because she threatens him. She would scratch herself and hit herself and call the cops on him and say he beat her up if he wont come and see her. Even if he was not there when they arrived he was arrested. I dont know if this jerk is feeding me a bunch of garbage or if he is telling the truth. I know one thing im freaking hurt so bad and the worst part is I keep letting him back into my life every time. I hate myself for this. Link to post Share on other sites
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