laRubiaBonita Posted November 15, 2006 Share Posted November 15, 2006 as the title says 'my heart still skips a beat when i hear of Him' i miss the ex. whats a girl to do? i miss Him, yet i Hate him at the same time. we have mutual friends, who will be getting married next year, He will most likely be a best man....... it has been 7 months since i broke up with Him, granted i am sooo much better now than i was.... but still, i hate that my heart aches when He is mentioned. Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted November 15, 2006 Share Posted November 15, 2006 You need to get under someone.. and quick... Sometimes news.. no matter how trival can bring back feelings..it happens to me as well... sometimes just mentioning her name makes my heart skip or stop.. Just keep a stiff upper lip and when you hear about him think of something really bad about him.. his breath stinks etc etc.. Link to post Share on other sites
luvtoto Posted November 15, 2006 Share Posted November 15, 2006 It just takes time, Rubia. It also helps to start dating again. Link to post Share on other sites
Author laRubiaBonita Posted November 16, 2006 Author Share Posted November 16, 2006 You need to get under someone.. and quick... i need sex?!? I really do! Link to post Share on other sites
KittenMoon Posted November 16, 2006 Share Posted November 16, 2006 LRB- I thought you dated someone for a while, right? Didn't that help at all? Link to post Share on other sites
gonetildecember Posted November 16, 2006 Share Posted November 16, 2006 as the title says 'my heart still skips a beat when i hear of Him' The Same thing happens to me, I'll be having a really good day and think wow- he's carely crossed my mind, then i'll have someone say,.. oh i saw him the other day or when was the last time you saw him... and my heart drops..and all i can do is miss him.. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted November 16, 2006 Share Posted November 16, 2006 ...no comment Link to post Share on other sites
Author laRubiaBonita Posted November 16, 2006 Author Share Posted November 16, 2006 LRB- I thought you dated someone for a while, right? Didn't that help at all? no..... and it makes me think of Him more.... like i compare everything to how i felt with Him, my first love.... maybe that is the problem? the latest guy, i just quit, i never ever felt remotely close to the same. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted November 16, 2006 Share Posted November 16, 2006 the latest guy, i just quit, i never ever felt remotely close to the same. thats cause latest guy was 'nice guy'....the guy before him was abuser bad boy and treated you like dirt and then left you. That is what females need to feel "in love" Link to post Share on other sites
Author laRubiaBonita Posted November 16, 2006 Author Share Posted November 16, 2006 thats cause latest guy was 'nice guy'....the guy before him was abuser bad boy and treated you like dirt and then left you. That is what females need to feel "in love" god ALPHA, you would think after 13 337 posts you would know a little about what we chics need to feel love...... Link to post Share on other sites
allina Posted November 16, 2006 Share Posted November 16, 2006 thats cause latest guy was 'nice guy'....the guy before him was abuser bad boy and treated you like dirt and then left you. That is what females need to feel "in love" Oh Alpha, as much as I like you I hate these crazy ideas of yours. My bf is a wonderful guy and treats me like gold and I feel very in love with him. Females don't need an a-hole. Link to post Share on other sites
D-Lish Posted November 16, 2006 Share Posted November 16, 2006 There is no set time limit on getting over a lost love. I had lunch with my mom today and she told me it's been too long for me to still be grieving (almost 3 months) and that I should see a therapist.... THANKS MOM.... your cooking sucks! I wish Advil had a fast acting caplet that worked on heartache as well as it does on headaches. But alas, it's all up to us to fix that broken heart. I've had a set back of late too. Now I'm thinking about the ex 24/7. It's the hope that keeps us from moving forward. I still rush to the phone everytime it rings, still look for his truck outside my house everytime I turn the corner. I hear the "ding" on my e-mail and my heart skips a beat. None of us want to actually feel this way... I'd love nothing more than to let go and move on. I've had some perfectly good dates with potential guys... but my heart still belongs to my ex for the time being. Argh... maybe my mom is right, maybe I do need therapy. And maybe my mom needs a cooking class... D Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted November 16, 2006 Share Posted November 16, 2006 god ALPHA, you would think after 13 337 posts you would know a little about what we chics need to feel love...... I just call it as I see it....what is you explanation then (if I'm so wrong)?? My bf is a wonderful guy and treats me like gold and I feel very in love with him. Females don't need an a-hole. A minority of females are dominant types and like submissive men who are lapdogs... Link to post Share on other sites
allina Posted November 16, 2006 Share Posted November 16, 2006 A minority of females are dominant types and like submissive men who are lapdogs... My bf is in no way submissive or a lap dog, if you knew him you'd agree. There is much room between being an abusive a-hole and a man who acts like a b*tch. My SO happens to be a great, nice, confident, happy and successful guy who loves and values me Link to post Share on other sites
burning 4 revenge Posted November 16, 2006 Share Posted November 16, 2006 Alpha has seen some jerks with girls who are in love with them and some nice guys who got dumped hard, so he thinks that its a simple equation. He doesn't seem to understand that maybe some of those jerks had qualities the females desired like looks, good in bed, money and that some of those nice guys didn't have other qualities females value. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted November 16, 2006 Share Posted November 16, 2006 He doesn't seem to understand that maybe some of those jerks had qualities the females desired like looks, good in bed, money and that some of those nice guys didn't have other qualities females value. why do you think I don't know this already?? Link to post Share on other sites
burning 4 revenge Posted November 16, 2006 Share Posted November 16, 2006 why do you think I don't know this already??because you say that they want them for being a jerk and don't acknowledge what the real reasons may be. women are like men. if someone is a jerk, but has certain things they crave in their life it won't stop them from wanting them. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted November 16, 2006 Share Posted November 16, 2006 because you say that they want them for being a jerk and don't acknowledge what the real reasons may be. dude, its already common knowledge that the "jerks" and "bitches" already have something going for them, it may be looks, may be money, whatever. You can't be a jerk and get away with it if you're some fat, nerdy guy with no job who lives in his mom's basement. Link to post Share on other sites
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