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As you guys might know I have been with my boy for almost 2 years.

 

About 4 months into our relationship he was getting a little close to a co-worker just texting and going for lunch at work. I met her we went to the same gym.

 

At this time mine and his relationship was not serious at all I was just ending my relationship with my ex of 4 years (very horrible one) and we pretty much just partied and hade fun together.

Anywase one day (still about 4 months in the relationship) me and him got into a huge fight which was my fault I totally embarressed him and acted like a total idiot infront of all these ppl ( iwas extremely drunk and just plain old stupid total idiot)..ppl he worked with too. But a day or two later I checked his phone and saw him saying things in his texts that I might not be the one for him because of the way I acted that night...(of course the day I realized I wanted to be serious with him and changed the way I would act sometimes)..the texts were pretty flirty....I found this very direspectful and left him for a month I didn't answer any of his calls he sent me cards and flowers I never responded. He said he said these things because he couldn't see himself with someone that acted like that and he just needed someone to talk to.

 

We started talking again slowly and have been togteher since. I completely changed myslef since than because I was not honest and hade my own problems. I am only with him he is practically the only guy I talk to and he has completely chnaged also....she text him once 2 weeks after we got back and just asked waht he was doing that weekend he told me about it and showed the text. He wanted to chnage thigns and have a real relationship and shw me he respected me.

 

Here we are now I have never been so happy with someone and I turst him he trusts me more than anything we have both chnaged 100% and re very happy about it.

This morning he came up to me and said "I want to tell you I got a text from her this morning saying she saw pictures of us at a party and that her b/f knows me" He said I wouldn't respond because I know thats what she wants me to do and I want to be honest with you and tell you everything"....pfft jsut found out from my friend that she saw these pics on my friend pic sharing site....so she didn't even actually see these pics she was looking on the net at my friends page......

 

So what im getting at is do you think I have to worry about him responding? I would have no problem with him speaking to another girl at all but after they talked about me and she tried to make me look even worse I have no respect for her.

I am so happy he was honest.....is everything cool?

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Sounds like you two really had a rocky start. I wouldn't worry about it. Two years later and you guys are still going strong. He has proven to you his trust and loyalty to you, so he sounds like a great guy. Forget about it and let the good times roll.:)

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Thanx Rddler!

 

At least someone answered! Thanks for tha answer and i agree with you.

Im not going to bother waisting my time worrying anywase!

 

The past about month i've been in a ****ty mood (because of some health thing) but I found out good news and i think I am back to my positive self :) so I just tahught i share that :)

Thanks again....even if I was still depressed your face is always an upper!!

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Thanx Rddler!

 

At least someone answered! Thanks for tha answer and i agree with you.

Im not going to bother waisting my time worrying anywase!

 

The past about month i've been in a ****ty mood (because of some health thing) but I found out good news and i think I am back to my positive self :) so I just tahught i share that :)

Thanks again....even if I was still depressed your face is always an upper!!

 

You are welcome.:) :) :) :) :) :)

 

Smile more often, it will make you feel better.

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