should I even be jealous?

[staRRz]

Okay, I met this man at my previous job. I knew he was married and always steered clear of anything other than a professional relationship. So, about a year later we still talked and he was going thru a divorce. I was there for him when he needed to talk. Several times he has told me that he likes me, and tried to start dating me. It took a long time for me to start dating him.

 

Within the past weeks he's been telling me that he wants to start a relationship with me. He has 2 kids and I have none. I would not mind his children and I really like this person. We've been definitely dating. He's constantly calling me, wants to take me out all the time, but I kept my distance because I've been thru some bad relationships and dont wanna be caught up in that. I also told him I don't like liars. he keeps making excuses of why we cant be together and that his ex wants him back. So i told him to make up his mind.

 

The other day I had lunch with him and he hugged me, acted like nothing was wrong. Then, suddenly out of nowhere he starts telling me that he met a girl the other nite and hung out with her (he swares nothing happened) and then telling me about another girl that he sees. At that time, im thinking, why are you telling me this?!? Of course I was a little jealous, but didn't want to act like it, b/c were only dating. He called me later, but I'm confused! Why would he tell me something like that just for no reason? did he feel guilty? is he trying to test me? He tells me he really likes me then pulls that on me? why? my mind is boggled with wonder!

[norajane]

Stay away from this guy. Is his divorce even final?

 

Even if he is divorced, he's obviously out there to make up for lost time and sow some wild oats. Don't be his rebound relationship, or just one of the many women he wants to f*ck now that he's no longer married.