I don't know what to do

[Julie]

I really really don't know what to do, and any advice would

 

be very welcome.

 

I love a man, I have for about a year. The thing is, he's engaged to a women that he has never met over the internet.

 

They have been engaged for a year and a half, but still

 

have never met. Things just keep happening that prevent them from being together.

 

Out of frustration, and longing to have someone, he began to be with me more and more.

 

Now we've been sleeping together for months, and I love him.

 

I've told him how I feel and it doesn't change his feelings for her.

 

I can't live without him...I can't...

 

Do you think that there's a chance that we'll ever be together??

 

Why is she so much better than I?? They haven't even met!!

 

Wouldn't they be together if their love was that strong?

 

What do I do???

[Mike]

Think about it. There is no hope for a relationship with this bozo. Who would want him any way? No one with any sense gets engaged over the internet. And if he is engaged how could you steal a man from someone else??? She may not be very bright for promising to marry a guy she never met, but that doesn't mean it is okay to try and steal her man. How would you feel if you were her? And if she shouldn't trust him neither should you. "If they will cheat with you then they will cheat on you." The farther away from them you get the better off you will be...I can promise you that.

I really really don't know what to do, and any advice would be very welcome. I love a man, I have for about a year. The thing is, he's engaged to a women that he has never met over the internet. They have been engaged for a year and a half, but still have never met. Things just keep happening that prevent them from being together. Out of frustration, and longing to have someone, he began to be with me more and more. Now we've been sleeping together for months, and I love him. I've told him how I feel and it doesn't change his feelings for her. I can't live without him...I can't... Do you think that there's a chance that we'll ever be together?? Why is she so much better than I?? They haven't even met!! Wouldn't they be together if their love was that strong? What do I do???