anto0o Posted November 17, 2006 Share Posted November 17, 2006 about a month ago me and my girl friend of 5 years broke up.. over some dumb stuff...she quickly jumped into another relationship, where this guys is supposidly treating her like gold...but i know the guy and a couple of his friends, and i know this guy is no good...i did the mistake of telling her that the guy is no good...of course she fights it but what can i do..i was desperate...anyways...a month passes, and i still love her...her sister told me that she got into a big fight with her parents and her dad disowned her...and she called her ex best friend crying saing she had no one to talk to and wanted someone to talk to...but her best friend hates her ever since she went with this other guy(cause she also knows hes no good)so when i found out all of this i wanted to call...i felt bad and i wanted to be there for her...but i couldn't...she knows if i was still with her even if i was in cali i woulda been in front of her house in 10 min(we live in ny)...i feel hurt...i love her alot...at times i want her back and at other times i don't want her back...i want tolet her know how i feel but i'm scared that she is still hurt and will not listen to anything i say...what should i do??? please any help is appreciated... "u ****ed up and u made me **** up and thats why we are in this **** hole" "yea u caused me to **** us up more" "its ur fault this happened and i hate u for it" "i had no choice but to do it i wanted it to happen i ****ed up but u made me do it just so that u can see see that i was hurting" "do u hate me?" "if i wouldve walked into ur life would u accept me back" "my feelings are...i hate u sometimes but then i think about u cuz i love u alot but i stop myself" "i miss alot of things" "weve hurt each other so much that to me its unrepairable cuz ull be unwillin to forget the **** i did those are some words she has told me. http://blog.myspace.com/luvu4amin a blog i made for her on myspace. Link to post Share on other sites
norajane Posted November 17, 2006 Share Posted November 17, 2006 When someone tells you they're f*cked up, you should believe them. When someone tells you they're f*cked up and you made them that way, run, run, run far and fast. She's blaming you for her problems, yet she's creating them for herself even after you're not together. Just let it go. She might one day wake up and come crawling back, but don't sit around waiting for that to happen. Work on healing yourself and finding someone who won't be telling you that she f*cked up but you made her do it. Link to post Share on other sites
demilde Posted November 17, 2006 Share Posted November 17, 2006 When someone tells you they're f*cked up, you should believe them. My ex said that, which is why I am not contacting her; only she can unf*ck herself. Someone with strong feelings would only get in the way. If she sorts herself out and realises I am what she wants then we will talk, and then maybe take it slow after that. Its horrible to see someone you care so much about in so much turmoil, but there really isn't anything you can do I guess. Link to post Share on other sites
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