Mythical Posted November 17, 2006 Share Posted November 17, 2006 I am just curious if i have the right to be mad about this. This girl that caused problems in my relationship a couple months ago, text my boy saying she saw him and me in a pick at a halloween party anywase she didn't she saw it on my friends site that posted a pic of me and her. Anywase he was honest told me about the text I told him that she saw it on my friends site I went on her site and looked at her pics as a joke to show him I was over it and it didn't bother me I put his face on her boyfriends face and sent it to him as a joke. It was funny we both thaught it was next thing i know it he asked for the link to her page... Do I have the right to be mad?? He knows how much it hurt me. (they didn't do anything togteher they were just friends but bad mouthed me and I found out through texts) He totally stoped talking to me and she finally text him now and was honest which is good but why did he want the link? It pissed me off so much because I made an effort to show I was over it by joking. Why does he want to see this site...he said so I can laugh about it...when he asked for it he said "send me the link to "fatty's site" What do you guys think? Please respond im so mad and sad because I was so happy and than it toally changed around Link to post Share on other sites
melodymatters Posted November 17, 2006 Share Posted November 17, 2006 Depends on your relationship Mythical. My ex husband and i would always trade links and mock out our ex's togther over the phone. Maybe it's not "kind" but nor was it threatining to the relationship. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Mythical Posted November 17, 2006 Author Share Posted November 17, 2006 Depends on your relationship Mythical. My ex husband and i would always trade links and mock out our ex's togther over the phone. Maybe it's not "kind" but nor was it threatining to the relationship. You know what your prob right. I feel horrible for over reacting. But this happened a couple months ago and it really hurt me. Just don't see what he would get out of looking at her pics.....hes not with me or on the phone he just wanted the link I know if I swicthed it around and it was me flirting with some guy, bad mouthing him to him and it casueing us to break up I wouldn't even think of asking to see his site Link to post Share on other sites
melodymatters Posted November 17, 2006 Share Posted November 17, 2006 I'm confused, your BF was bad mouthing you to his ex ? THAT certainly is not/was not cool. Were you in a fight at the time ? If things are good now, I would prob just be honest and say " Ok, if you are going on fattys site to mock, thats cool, but i DO still have some raw scar tissue from when you guys were badmouthing me that time, so don't do anything I wouldn't do " Link to post Share on other sites
Author Mythical Posted November 17, 2006 Author Share Posted November 17, 2006 Sorry I prob didn't explain myself too well... But ok no when we were just seeing eachother we weren't serious. But he was working with this girl they weren't dating or doing anything just friends. I hade a freak out one night and emmbarrsessed him and found out through his texts he was bad mouthing me and saying "I wasn't the one for him" Anywase We are VERY serious now everything was fine we got backtogether and I forgot about it. A day ago she text him out of no where he was honest and the hole picture her lying thing happened than I jokeed about it by posting his hea don her boyfriends..... After that wa done he asked for the link to her picture site Link to post Share on other sites
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