I Think It's Time

[ME]

Well, anyone that has read my other post, may know that I had been seeing this girl, and really, liked her a lot. What the may also know is that she was not sure of what she wanted. Well, she will be in town tonight, and I think it's time that I let her know exactly how I feel about her, and let her know what I want (that being her). It has been a month, and I have let her have that space to figure things out, but my patience is running short. I care about this girl a lot, and I can see good things as a result of being with her.

 

I am not sure whether I should tell her how I feel, or if I should just bite my tounge, and let things develope, without her knowing that I have SERIOUS feelings for her.

 

*SERIOUS* I do not believe in "Love at first Sight", but I certainly felt something close to it when i first me her.

 

Please, any advice would be apreciated, as I am not sure which direction I should take here.

[Tony T]

You say she will be in town tonight...does that mean she lives out of town? If she lives far away from you there's no good purpose in telling her how you feel.

 

If she does live near you and you don't see her often, you need to start a dating relationship before you start telling her how you feel about her. Otherwise, she'll think you're a little nuts. You don't just say those kinds of things out of nowhere. Yes, you may know her...but you need to know her in a dating relationship before you spit our your feelings to her. And it would be pretty insane to do that even if you don't have a reasonable feeling she may feel you are somewhat special to her as well.

 

But, search inside yourself. If it will make you feel better to see just where she stands on the issue, by all means do tell her you have feelings for her. Be prepared for the answer one way or the other.

 

My best advice is date her often and let her feelings for you evolve as well. When you see her often, she will have a chance to develop feelings for you if that's going to happen.

[dolphinna]

I have been dating a person for almost four months and I to have deep feelings for him i want to tell him but i think its best to give it time and when the moment is right you will know or at least thats what i am waiting for

[velvet]

How long will she be in town. You should consider giving her the first night at least while trying to seducer her. Than the last night you spend with her tell her how you feel. Be sure you know what words you want to use. Keep it short, dont drag it out into an hours long conversation.

 

How long have you known her? And her you? If this is just some fantasy your going to act out, you may look like a nut like Tony said.

 

You dont have to express your feelings to her verbally. You can show her how you feel about her! Thats all up to your imagination. Good Luck and let us know how it went.