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Friends with Benefits - Has he fallen?


LoveSick28

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I'm in a really weird situation with someone right now. From the beginning of our "relationship" he told me he was not ready to settle down and I accepted. I compromised myself and slept with him even though I was looking to settle down. I felt that any companionship was good enough until I found Mr. Right.

 

We were always on and off. I would get upset with him not speak for weeks or months at a time and he would always end up calling back. We would never speak that much, maybe 1x a week.

 

Recently things have changed. He now calls everyday (multiple times a day), make comments and sometimes seems jealous at the idea that other men are in my life. Sometimes he'll send lyrics of love songs to my phone via text. Is he falling for me? Why does he act this way?

 

I got upset with the small tokens of "love" and the frequent calling, and I told him I was happy with the guy I began seeing. He seemed to angerily reply, that he was in love with somebody else. My response, if you are in love with someone else, why are you calling me everyday, way do you send me love lyrics and why do you tell me you miss me? I do not force or encourage him to call, he calls because he wants to.

 

What's going on?

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