null Posted May 28, 2002 Share Posted May 28, 2002 I've been in a relationship for a little over a year now.. both myself and my girlfriend have been pretty isolated people in the past, not really close to anyone... we get along extremely well, and we're both insanely similar... we get along better than I would've ever thought possible... There's a little more to it, though... it's taken me quite some time to really admit this to myself, but I think I may be transsexual... at first, I wasn't really sure what was 'wrong'... when I was first getting to know her, it came up once... this was before I really had even thought that I could be trans, but I knew that I wanted to be female... I told her this, she really didn't know what to say... that was about 6 moths or so ago, but I really think it's I may end up doing something about... she is a very open minded person, but she's no bi... we're quite close, and I don't think she'd just flat-out leave me, but I don't think it'd be something she'd exactly be for, either... ... I guess I'm just looking for advice from a female point of view... if your boyfriend told you something like this, how would you react..? Link to post Share on other sites
clia Posted May 28, 2002 Share Posted May 28, 2002 Honestly? I'd be extremely freaked out. I would try to be his friend, but I would stop dating him immediately. Maybe it makes me a wench, but I want to date a man. I want to marry a man. Of course, there are women out there who would stay because the love runs deep. Only you have an inkling of how your girlfriend will react. If you think this is what you are going to do, you must tell her immediately. She has invested a year in your relationship, and may be looking forward to marriage, kids, etc. You are leading her on if you do not tell her the truth. Link to post Share on other sites
velvet Posted May 28, 2002 Share Posted May 28, 2002 Only she knows how she will react. Do you think it will change your r/s? Will things stay the same as they are now? How will your lifestyle change? Are you going to stand beside her in the mirror and do each others makeup and hair? I dated a man once and after he told me he had sex with another man I acted like it didnt bother me that night but he never heard from me again after he was out of my sight. She could get upset and leave and never want to see or talk to you again or be open minded, calm and support you. Sex will be the first question that will pop up in her mind. Link to post Share on other sites
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