magichands Posted November 28, 2006 Share Posted November 28, 2006 Come on, Storyrider... you are most definitely a 3. People that rate other people on a scale are shallow idiots:mad: magichands puts his magic hands up Link to post Share on other sites
Anka Posted November 28, 2006 Share Posted November 28, 2006 Oh, BTW, im a total 3 Link to post Share on other sites
magichands Posted November 28, 2006 Share Posted November 28, 2006 Oh, BTW, im a total 3 You'll get no argument from me! Link to post Share on other sites
Storyrider Posted November 28, 2006 Share Posted November 28, 2006 Come on, Storyrider... you are most definitely a 3. Philosophically speaking, of course. That's sweet. I prefer to think that deep down they agreed with you. On my good days, I think so too. Link to post Share on other sites
magichands Posted November 28, 2006 Share Posted November 28, 2006 That's sweet. I prefer to think that deep down they agreed with you. On my good days, I think so too. Sorry about the confusion... my assessment was based on your bad days, Storyrider. When you're being a bad, bad girl. I'm so happy that you're happily married. I can rate you, but feel completely guilt-free about doing so. Link to post Share on other sites
Anka Posted November 28, 2006 Share Posted November 28, 2006 Am i the only one offended by this 'rating' system? Link to post Share on other sites
magichands Posted November 28, 2006 Share Posted November 28, 2006 Am i the only one offended by this 'rating' system? Your advice is like gold. What I've seen so far, anyway. And I confirmed your "3" rating... what is it going to take to shut you up? I'll "revisit" you once I have seen 100 posts. Link to post Share on other sites
Anka Posted November 28, 2006 Share Posted November 28, 2006 HUh? you want me to shut up? Why? What did i do???:( And what do you mean by 'revisiting'? Link to post Share on other sites
magichands Posted November 28, 2006 Share Posted November 28, 2006 And what do you mean by 'revisiting'? The only commitments I have are those to my pink elephantine companion, and to my "backup plan," aka Storyrider. Let's face it - most things in life are subject to revision. Link to post Share on other sites
Anka Posted November 28, 2006 Share Posted November 28, 2006 lol im so lost. So sorry, i have NO clue what you are talking about, lmao. Link to post Share on other sites
magichands Posted November 28, 2006 Share Posted November 28, 2006 So sorry, i have NO clue what you are talking about, lmao. Me neither. That was, like, 10 minutes ago. Who can remember what they were thinking that far back?! Link to post Share on other sites
Anka Posted November 28, 2006 Share Posted November 28, 2006 You were mean and wanted me to shut up I feel so rejected *crying* Link to post Share on other sites
magichands Posted November 28, 2006 Share Posted November 28, 2006 You were mean and wanted me to shut up I feel so rejected *crying* You must be the first person to take any notice of me. I feel honoured. And I apologise. I'm sorry for being a bad elephant, Anka. Link to post Share on other sites
Author megnog Posted November 29, 2006 Author Share Posted November 29, 2006 ok. yeah. so on one hand i am glad i'm an "8" so my guy can be comfortable and i'm comfortable around him because hes not a 10 but then i think physically hes not a 10 but hes way up there. maybe its because he just is, or maybe its just my personal opinion because of the time spent with him(?) i want to be a 10 but in a way i guess i'm glad i'm not. although, after spending enough time with someone i'd be comfortable with anyone. although.. i must admit if i were with a 10 i'd feel pressured to look good all the time as well, wear makeup 24/7, because if we went out together i wouldn't want to be one of those couples where one of them is so obviously much better looking than the other. but then its like who cares what they think? gah i don't know. i guess i'm rambling now. well thanks guys, somewhere in between all the fuss i don't find myself caring as much anymore. things are going good in the relationship. infact! he hadn't answered his phone all day and i was wondering where he was BUT i didn't ask him at all or give him any shiit about it because i knew it would just piss him off and cause some sort of fight because lets face it, i'm paranoid. whew. Link to post Share on other sites
magichands Posted November 29, 2006 Share Posted November 29, 2006 but then its like who cares what they think? Methinks thou doth worry too much. No one can make you feel inferior without your consent. Link to post Share on other sites
Anka Posted November 29, 2006 Share Posted November 29, 2006 *sigh* Link to post Share on other sites
Storyrider Posted November 29, 2006 Share Posted November 29, 2006 ...my "backup plan," aka Storyrider. Hey, I may not be pink, but ouch! Link to post Share on other sites
magichands Posted November 29, 2006 Share Posted November 29, 2006 Hey, I may not be pink, but ouch! The last time I checked, you are married. That wasn't my choice. Sorry, but I just don't want to share you. If it doesn't work out with my pink elephantine companion, you will have the first right of refusal. Link to post Share on other sites
Storyrider Posted November 29, 2006 Share Posted November 29, 2006 The last time I checked, you are married. That wasn't my choice. Sorry, but I just don't want to share you. If it doesn't work out with my pink elephantine companion, you will have the first right of refusal. That's perfectly sensible, but I just don't think the term "back-up plan" is very flattering. Link to post Share on other sites
magichands Posted November 29, 2006 Share Posted November 29, 2006 That's perfectly sensible, but I just don't think the term "back-up plan" is very flattering. Really?! I think that was my fault. What I mean is - if things don't work out with my pink elephantine companion, then I'll just waste away pining over you for the rest of my life. You're right... that really isn't a big deal. It's an effective way of getting rid of excess artery-hardening salt. Promising one's heart to another as an act of contingency is so passe. Link to post Share on other sites
RecordProducer Posted November 29, 2006 Share Posted November 29, 2006 When you ask "where on a 1-10 scale" you're asking for a "photographer's eye." Good that you didn't ask him if you could pose for the cover of Vogue; his answer might have been "Nooooooooo, are you crazy?" What you just described was the answer of the question: "Am I beautiful to you?" He would say "yes." Try asking that in a cheerful, inocent manner next time. The answer will most likely be "yes" and even more than that. If he says anything less than yes, then you have other issues. Because any smart man would tell his lover that she is beautiful to him. By the way, 8 is very good. Link to post Share on other sites
magichands Posted November 29, 2006 Share Posted November 29, 2006 Because any smart man would tell his lover that she is beautiful to him. Especially at the half-way mark. Link to post Share on other sites
Author megnog Posted December 1, 2006 Author Share Posted December 1, 2006 funny you should bring up a magazine, when i got my pictures done for my senior year in hs. (yeah i'm young, but that was 2 years ago!) my mom was loving them, like any good mom would, and said i looked like a model. chris heard this and later on would joke about how my mom said i looked like a model. he still does it once or twice a year or something and i'm sure hes just playing around but it still kind of hurt my feelings that he would make fun of someone saying that i'm decent looking. i know i'm not anywhere near a model but still.. i feel like hes saying this because i'm UGLY or something! anyway, sure sure any guy could say yes to a question like that. its not a matter or good bf or not, its a matter of a regular guy or a braindead guy. besides, i'd rather not ask him if he thinks i'm beautiful. for some reason it makes me uncomfortable Link to post Share on other sites
Walk Posted December 1, 2006 Share Posted December 1, 2006 Meg, are you sure you with the best type of person for you? I mean, I've been with some real losers. The kind that will point out a hot girl in front of me, or think I'm so farking stupid that I'll believe them if they tell me I'm pretty but spent the last 20 minutes making fun of my looks. Are you sure this guy deserves to be with you? If he's so insecure that he has to make you feel bad about how you look so you'll stay with him, is that someone you want to tie your life to? I don't know... Guess it's just that I believe if you love someone then you want them to feel better about themselves, not worse. And it doesn't have to be all gushy sweet crap about how beautiful you are, but an honest message that your important and special to you partner. Does he know his past comments bugged you? And this most recent one? Have you said anything to him about it? If he's really a good guy at heart, then he'll realize he overstepped the bounds and reign in his "joking". If he tells you your too sensitive and to "get over it", then comment on his penis size and ask him how it made him feel, then correlate it to how his comments about you made you feel bad. I've found that works really well. It's mean, but I'm not above being mean if I need to get a point across. Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted December 2, 2006 Share Posted December 2, 2006 If you don't want to ask him if he finds you beautiful, ask him why he thinks your mother's comment is so funny? If he personally rates you as an 8 already, it shouldn't be laughing material. In your shoes, I would ask him point blank, what's so funny about that comment and let him see that I was annoyed. Sometimes people can take a "joke" too far. Link to post Share on other sites
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