narcist_ave Posted November 24, 2006 Posted November 24, 2006 Me and my boyfriend have a beautiful relationship; we've had our ups and downs but we have made it thru. Lately tho, he seems to have lost his sexual energy towards me. (no he isn't cheating). It started out with him being tired, or just not in mood. I have tried every approach, and I know I am doing it right. I am 20, and he is 28. At first, he told me it was due to stress; I guess he looked it up or something. Then, he tells me he doesn't know what the heck is wrong with him, and hes embarrassed and he wishes he could figure it out. Ive recently cut my hair, and this seems to be the latest excuse. He actually told me I look like less of a woman. and boy that hurt like hell. But the excuse doesn't sit with me, as the problem was there long before. He tells me it isn't me, but how can it not be? He comes to bed and i make the moves and it even seems that he gets angry at me, not just himself. If i am walking around the room naked, he used to stare me up and down. Now he's too busy "drawing up a blank" and staring into the distance. Its like he doesn't see me. My body hasn't changed, I'm still thin and in shape. Every time we do have sex, its because of me. How can I be sexy again? I don't understand this and it is really starting to hurt me deep inside. Ive never felt like so much less of a woman and so unsexy as I do right now. It has literally been over a year since he has kissed me more than a normal kiss on the lips. and when we do have sex, there seems to be hardly any foreplay. advice, please, i dont know what to do?
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