Carrie Posted November 3, 1999 Share Posted November 3, 1999 I met this guy and we hit it off. We spent all of our time together and enjoyed every bit of it. we went everywhere and did everything together. We never hid anything from each other and then I met this girl that claimed she was friends with his exgirlfriend. He went out with his ex for almost 2 years and told me he still loved her he just wasnt in love with her. i believed him. This girl claimed that He had been driving 2 hours at his lunch break everyday to take her to lunch and was at her house everynight. He worked and lived over 2 hours away from where she lived and he was with me when he wasnt at work so I didnt believe a word she said and I thought I needed to tell him what she was saying about him so he could find out why. I had met his family and he had met mine and we all got along great. He always made little comments about why I hadnt been around earlier when his ex was always breaking his heart. From the very beginning there was a special connection that both of us felt. Until that day I told him what she had said. He then decided I guess that our relationship was pretty much over. He told me that he thought I would never get over his past relationships and he ended ours. I told him i didnt believe a word of what she said but he never acted like it changed anything. Im still in love with him and I want to get him back. I think about him constantly and cant stand being away from him. I want to know how he feels about me and if there is a chance we can get back together. Its only been a month and I dont think hes seeing anyone and ive tried to see other people and it hasnt worked out because I compare everyone to him and end up breaking it off after the first night. How do i tell him how i feel without scaring him off. Please Help. Link to post Share on other sites
Cici Posted November 4, 1999 Share Posted November 4, 1999 If you feel that strongly, you shouldn't hesitate to talk to him about your feelings. I think he might have overreacted to your comment. Sometimes, boyfriends don't need to know everything. For example, I told my boyfriend his roommate had propositioned me. It caused great friciton between the two of them, even though it wasn't an issue becuase i turned him down immediately. I realized it wouldn've been better for me to keep it to myself. I met this guy and we hit it off. We spent all of our time together and enjoyed every bit of it. we went everywhere and did everything together. We never hid anything from each other and then I met this girl that claimed she was friends with his exgirlfriend. He went out with his ex for almost 2 years and told me he still loved her he just wasnt in love with her. i believed him. This girl claimed that He had been driving 2 hours at his lunch break everyday to take her to lunch and was at her house everynight. He worked and lived over 2 hours away from where she lived and he was with me when he wasnt at work so I didnt believe a word she said and I thought I needed to tell him what she was saying about him so he could find out why. I had met his family and he had met mine and we all got along great. He always made little comments about why I hadnt been around earlier when his ex was always breaking his heart. From the very beginning there was a special connection that both of us felt. Until that day I told him what she had said. He then decided I guess that our relationship was pretty much over. He told me that he thought I would never get over his past relationships and he ended ours. I told him i didnt believe a word of what she said but he never acted like it changed anything. Im still in love with him and I want to get him back. I think about him constantly and cant stand being away from him. I want to know how he feels about me and if there is a chance we can get back together. Its only been a month and I dont think hes seeing anyone and ive tried to see other people and it hasnt worked out because I compare everyone to him and end up breaking it off after the first night. How do i tell him how i feel without scaring him off. Please Help. Link to post Share on other sites
Carrie Posted November 5, 1999 Share Posted November 5, 1999 So you think I might still have a chance to get abck with him? If you feel that strongly, you shouldn't hesitate to talk to him about your feelings. I think he might have overreacted to your comment. Sometimes, boyfriends don't need to know everything. For example, I told my boyfriend his roommate had propositioned me. It caused great friciton between the two of them, even though it wasn't an issue becuase i turned him down immediately. I realized it wouldn've been better for me to keep it to myself. Link to post Share on other sites
Cici Posted November 5, 1999 Share Posted November 5, 1999 Anything in this world is possible, sweetie. If it's meant to be, it will be. If not, though, don't let it hurt you so much. If he won't listen to what I think is your perfectly logical explanation, then he's not really worth wasting your time on. And maybe there were underlying issues tat caused the breakup. Bottom line, you need to do whatever you can to either more fully explain your feelings or get closure for yourself. So you think I might still have a chance to get abck with him? Link to post Share on other sites
Carrie Posted November 5, 1999 Share Posted November 5, 1999 Do you believe in fate?? the reason i ask is because both of us had just came out of really bad relationships and we both thought it was amazing that we found each other and were so perfect for each other that soon after our breakups. Anything in this world is possible, sweetie. If it's meant to be, it will be. If not, though, don't let it hurt you so much. If he won't listen to what I think is your perfectly logical explanation, then he's not really worth wasting your time on. And maybe there were underlying issues tat caused the breakup. Bottom line, you need to do whatever you can to either more fully explain your feelings or get closure for yourself. Link to post Share on other sites
Cici Posted November 6, 1999 Share Posted November 6, 1999 I do believ in fate. But I also know that when it comes to relationships and love, it takes a lot of hard work and commitment on both parts, and sometimes people tend to just rely on the fact that things "seem right" between the two of them, when it takes a lot of hard work. I think you should definately not rely on just a good feeling inside your heart to make things right. Do you believe in fate?? the reason i ask is because both of us had just came out of really bad relationships and we both thought it was amazing that we found each other and were so perfect for each other that soon after our breakups. Link to post Share on other sites
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