MrDemon Posted November 25, 2006 Share Posted November 25, 2006 Well basically about 3 weeks ago i went to a concert, and i met one of my close friends from school there. After exchanging pleasantries after meeting there, we started to watch the band. I stood behind her and we started cuddling from behind and holding hands, with her rubbing her fingers up and down mine. We done this for like practically the whole 5-6 hour concert. She has a bf and it took all my strength not to kiss her, which I am proud of, I think. Then after the show we were texting and I told her I really wanted to kiss her at the concert and we told each other that we kinda liked each other. And she texted me back saying 'I'm glad you didn't kiss me cause i wouldn't have stopped you'. After this i have really fallen for her and i told her and she seems a bit wierd with me now. why could this be? x Link to post Share on other sites
aeren944 Posted November 27, 2006 Share Posted November 27, 2006 There's a lot of reasons why that could be, MrDemon. The one that jumps out at me is because she's got a boyfriend. Maybe she doesn't him to find out about you. Maybe she doesn't want to lose what she has with him. Maybe she doesn't want a relationship with you. Who knows? The point is, you told her, and now the balls in her court. Link to post Share on other sites
megnog Posted November 29, 2006 Share Posted November 29, 2006 yeah, theres not much you can do from this point my friend. you told her how you felt and now she has to decide if she wants to be with you or her boyfriend. i hate to break it to you but i think she will stick with her boyfriend. depending on how long they have been going together, i'm sure she has deeper feelings for him than you only because they've spent far more time together than you have with her. she might feel things for you so much, though, that she would consider cheating. do not become apart of that because it can only lead to trouble. feelings thrown about like a glass bowl shattering. oddly enough, i get weirded out if a guy likes me regardless if i have a boyfriend. or more over, i guess, when i'm single. if i like a guy and he likes me back suddenly (this happens SOMEtimes) i don't like him anymore. maybe its because of my lack of self respect that i just get disgusted to think that someone would like me. now, thats my own issues and perhaps i shouldn't have thrown that onto the table, but maybe thats why she got so weirded out? also, at the concert, maybe she was drunk or on something? it seems like her feelings changed from the time of the concert to the time of you telling her you had a thing for her.... Link to post Share on other sites
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