Trialbyfire Posted December 1, 2006 Share Posted December 1, 2006 Basically, you're the OM in between a MW and her spouse. If he finds out, you will be in deep kimchee. If you want to continue this affair, which is what it is, be prepared for the consequences. Flags that I see: 1. She's lied to you. 2. The "she's staying for the children" lie. 3. She wants to hook you up with someone close, so she can have her cake and eat it too. Classic signs of a cake eater. Link to post Share on other sites
Author ratingsguy Posted December 2, 2006 Author Share Posted December 2, 2006 RG: You don't seem to have any expectations for the R and you seem to have faced a lot of the realities of your situation...best of luck to you and glad to have you in the forum...GEL Thanks GEL! This forum is really great... to meet other people in similar circumstances and see how they are faring... it's a great refuge for those of us going through this. Much more fun than doing my December budget! But how about some more OMs? You guys have to be out there somewhere! Link to post Share on other sites
oyster Posted December 2, 2006 Share Posted December 2, 2006 But how about some more OMs? You guys have to be out there somewhere! here here, row call. check my post under my user name, human will be human and similar experience will be experience by other. the longer the marriage, the lower the probability they will leave. I approach it differently now. I have FUN FUN when it is convenient for me to meet up and if she wants more, start convincing me. If she says the Love word, well divorce then we talk, I remind my ex-MW to walk the talk. I even push her back home to sort things out in her miserable marriage. Link to post Share on other sites
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