Beee Posted November 28, 2006 Share Posted November 28, 2006 If feelings are true love, or close enough to that definition, and there is a good chance the other person might be the one... if feelings become compromised due to circumstances and wrong choises... Does "if its meant to be it will be" work? If you miss your train, and its a special train, potentially the one you should be on for the rest of your life, if you put in all the effort you possibly can, can you catch that train at another station? Hope my littly silly metaphore makes sense Link to post Share on other sites
BannaBee57 Posted November 28, 2006 Share Posted November 28, 2006 "if its meant to be it will be" I believe in this BEE! I know a lot of people don't agree but I think that there is no reason that people can't reconnect later on "down the track" when the timing/circumstances are better for a relationship. You may not get the same exact relationship as the one you had before but that doesn't mean that you can't find a different and better dynamic than you had in the past. I'm trying to be an optimist here Link to post Share on other sites
pjammer Posted November 28, 2006 Share Posted November 28, 2006 "if its meant to be it will be" I believe in this BEE! I know a lot of people don't agree but I think that there is no reason that people can't reconnect later on "down the track" when the timing/circumstances are better for a relationship. You may not get the same exact relationship as the one you had before but that doesn't mean that you can't find a different and better dynamic than you had in the past. I'm trying to be an optimist here I wish I could share your optimism (I am usually pessimistic), and I sure as hell hope this will happen with me...when she broke up with me, she even said that she couldnt predict the future, and we may "reconnect" in the future. I know she still cares about me, and I made some stupid immature mistakes. But I think we can be even stronger because of this because I have learned from them. I just hope she will see the good in me again, because I know in my mind she is the one... Anyway, to answer your question, yes, I think I do believe if its meant to be it will be. Atleast that is what I am hoping for... Link to post Share on other sites
laRubiaBonita Posted November 28, 2006 Share Posted November 28, 2006 anything IS possible. but you should not hinder yourself and being on the actions of others. the way i see "meant to be" is: let say you break up with whom you thought was the one, instead of moping and trying to intervine in the life of that person, you must truely move on and keep on living your life. and maybe.... if it is "meant to be" your one will change trains down the line and reappear on the one you are now on. but you cannot live for that chance.... you have to live life as best you can in the mean time. Link to post Share on other sites
D-Lish Posted November 29, 2006 Share Posted November 29, 2006 Well, unfortunately (sticking to the train metaphor...) one of those people did not feel like they were on the right train and chose to depart. What that says is that although you may have felt your ex was "the one"... your ex didn't think so. Which ultimately means, that they couldn't really be the one for you afterall. Doesn't mean it doesn't hurt. But we can't will people to love us. Link to post Share on other sites
IpAncA Posted November 29, 2006 Share Posted November 29, 2006 There are some who believe in the whole "meant to be" and some who don't. I for one do and if you end up with someone or don't then IMO then is was meant to be. It seems like it would have to because if it wasn't meant to be, then what was it? Link to post Share on other sites
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