HOTMAMMI Posted November 29, 2006 Share Posted November 29, 2006 i've been seeing this guy for about a month, and he is talking about oving in together in about 2 months if everything goes well with us. I know it sees VERY soon, buthe is the sweetest guy ever. hes romantic, works hard, respects women. I ond tknow if im making the right decision, what do you ppl think about it? Link to post Share on other sites
rainfall Posted November 29, 2006 Share Posted November 29, 2006 I mived in with my current boyfriend after 3 months. We have been together 6 years in a week. So sometimes it can work out when you move in together really soon. Link to post Share on other sites
norajane Posted November 29, 2006 Share Posted November 29, 2006 What's the rush? Living together can kill romance pretty quickly. You have no where to go when you need some time alone. Link to post Share on other sites
IpAncA Posted November 29, 2006 Share Posted November 29, 2006 I didn't move in with my H until we married. But I stayed with him a lot. Link to post Share on other sites
Touche Posted November 29, 2006 Share Posted November 29, 2006 I moved in with my husband 3 months after we met but we were already engaged by then. That was 12 years ago this coming January. Link to post Share on other sites
rainfall Posted November 29, 2006 Share Posted November 29, 2006 What's the rush? Living together can kill romance pretty quickly. You have no where to go when you need some time alone. It doesn't always kill the romance, sometimes it makes a relationship better. There are plently of places people can go when they need time alone such as the gym, just for a walk around the block, out with friends (might not be "alone" time but it would at least be seperate time) Link to post Share on other sites
norajane Posted November 29, 2006 Share Posted November 29, 2006 It doesn't always kill the romance, sometimes it makes a relationship better. That's why I said it "can" kill a romance. It's something that can happen, and does. Just like it can and does work sometimes. Nothing wrong with considering all the possibilities instead of just one of them. There are plently of places people can go when they need time alone such as the gym, just for a walk around the block, out with friends (might not be "alone" time but it would at least be seperate time) Yes, of course. But sometimes, the gym or walk around the block, or night out isn't enough away time. And even if you don't want to, you always have to come home at night. I'm not saying it can't work, I'm giving her some things to think about. Isn't that what she asked for? Link to post Share on other sites
arwen2117 Posted November 29, 2006 Share Posted November 29, 2006 Unofficially at about 2 1/2 months, officially at 4 months. And I am very happy. Link to post Share on other sites
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