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[WiseOne]

After a 1 Year and 2 Months Of being broke up, were back and were taking it slowly. 1 Day At A Time. So im here to tell u no matter how difficult something is or seems, theres always hope.

[Benji86]

After a 1 Year and 2 Months Of being broke up, were back and were taking it slowly. 1 Day At A Time. So im here to tell u no matter how difficult something is or seems, theres always hope.

 

amen to that! Never lose the faith It's what can keep you goin when the rest of the world tells you to stop

[silentalways]

congrats and much happiness.

[WiseOne]

Yea but right now were at that tricky state, so it all dependz on how the next couple of weeks go to see what happens in the end, we just tryin again to see if it would work

[magichands]

Yea but right now were at that tricky state,

Those sweet Georgia peaches can be quite juicy, too.

[WiseOne]

Lol, I Love her so much, lets just hope that this works out, becuz im not fully in the door, im borderline

[upsetnhurt]

what did you do to cause the initial breakup? Did you both talk about those problems and determine how they have been corrected? What does borderline mean, are you on probation ?

[WiseOne]

A Year and 2 months ago she said she wanted to see what else was out there, she wanted to play the field, so she did that, and i did Full NC, which mean NC what so ever, and it did great, even though she tried to break it a couple of times by asking our friends how i was doing and what i was up to becuz we share the same friends.

 

But yea i can say we both on prohbation, so im not gettin my hopes up just takin stuff one day at a time. So what im saying is anytime now it can collapse

[upsetnhurt]

Wiseone,

 

Why would you want someone back after they told you that they thought there may very well be better out there. She was willing to give you up once, what makes you think and trust that she won't ever do it again. Just because her prince charming did not turn up during your time apart does not mean deep down she will always be on the lookout for that person. Sorry to sound harsh yet I just don't get how you can deal with that uneasiness.

[WiseOne]

Lol the nerve of some people, especcially on this site.

 

Alot of you critcize everything but the right thing, you dont seem to have any problem with whatever the ex did to yall, or whatever the reason was for the breakup, however yall still like to critcize other people relationship, most of you are only trying to help, but the majority of you just dont have anything to say but bad stuff.

 

Maybe its becuz of your problem with your ex?

Maybe its becuz your hurt and wondering whats goin on with your love life?

Maybe you dont have a life?

Or maybe you just a hater?

 

In the end all im saying is most of you are making comments that dont are stupid, especcially when it comes to your ex relationships. Becuz most pf your stories about the ex arent that good either.

 

So before u comment on someones relatiosnhip look at your relationship, and tell me what u think, until that time comes grow up and be a man or a woman, becuz with or without my ex im gone be ok.

 

Cheers:)

[upsetnhurt]

Wiseone,

 

Thanks for deflecting my questions..........I'll ask again, what makes you think she won't drop you again when her prince charming shows up in the future? Obviously you were not good enough back then, what makes you think you are better for her today? Again, I am not asking to criticize your choices in life and wish you the best, just that I am curious how you are handling this thought process, or even if you are capable of comprehending this thought.

[upsetnhurt]

Wisone,

 

Why be on this site if you don't want people advice or thoughts? You want us just to feed your ego, whichever way you hope things work out? All we can share is based on our lifes experiences and if that is not good enough, go get a professional therapist to handle your issues.

[KittenMoon]

Wiseone,

 

Thanks for deflecting my questions..........I'll ask again, what makes you think she won't drop you again when her prince charming shows up in the future? Obviously you were not good enough back then, what makes you think you are better for her today? Again, I am not asking to criticize your choices in life and wish you the best, just that I am curious how you are handling this thought process, or even if you are capable of comprehending this thought.

 

Don't get bent out of shape. WiseOne's profile says he's only 17, and this kinda stuff happens all the time in high school. Best case, things work out, worst case, it's a learning experience. It generally doesn't hurt too much to make a few mistakes in HS, and they'll both probably be better for it, regardless of what happens.

[WiseOne]

Well sometimes people make mistakes, and i know inmy life i have made some huge decisions, and sometimes i wish i wouldnt have made that decision, and i know there are somethings taht i never would do again.

 

I do want people advises, its just that some people intetions are wrong, trust me i seen it before.

 

But im sorry if i came off wrong, Thanks People For All Your Help

[kenji08]

just ignore all the haters wiseone..that seriously makes me feel better to kno that things are actually working out for people..gives me hope..and were all humans we make mistakes..im sure u have made mistakes with ur relationship too..so yea..great to hear that and good luck

[WiseOne]

Thanks man, alot of peopel dont undertsand it took me a whole 1 and 2 months waiting for the chance to get my ex back, thats half of the time we went together, we was together for 1 and 8 months.

 

I use to kill the loveshack post when me and her first broke up, the only disadvantage is that im not fully in love with her, its kinda halfway there.

 

My post was to let people know that no matter how bad something is, or how impossible it may seem it can happen.

[BannaBee57]

I'm happy that this has worked out for you WiseOne!

 

However, this doesn't give me much hope for my situation. You guys are in high school and people break up and get back together all the time at that stage in the game.

 

It's a lot harder for second chances to happen and work out in adult life.

[WiseOne]

No Not Really, in reality from all the people i know in my life, alot of people who dated in high school stay together until there mid adult usually around 25 probably.

 

But i know alot of people that use to gotogether in high school and 1 day they get back together, it could have been years since they seen eachother but once they do sometimes they get back together.

But that only works if you guys were first love in High School, otherwise your gonna be forgotten.

 

But really if there is any real love in any relatiosnhip it can happen, normally people break up, but someway they still find there way back to eachother.

 

I know alot alot alot of couples like that.

[D-Lish]

No Not Really, in reality from all the people i know in my life, alot of people who dated in high school stay together until there mid adult usually around 25 probably.

 

But i know alot of people that use to gotogether in high school and 1 day they get back together, it could have been years since they seen eachother but once they do sometimes they get back together.

But that only works if you guys were first love in High School, otherwise your gonna be forgotten.

 

But really if there is any real love in any relatiosnhip it can happen, normally people break up, but someway they still find there way back to eachother.

 

I know alot alot alot of couples like that.

 

I knew people that broke up and got back together all the time too...

When I was BACK IN HIGHSCHOOL oh, say 15 years ago.

 

But falling in love in your teens- and falling in love in adulthood are pretty different. And if it's NOT different... there's a problem.

 

Actually, I broke up with, and got together with my highschool boyfriend over and over again.... he was the love of my life at the time I'm sure.... Hmm, can't recall his name now though.

[WiseOne]

Your right there are diffrent types of love, theres a diffrence from elementart (Cuz im sure that we all thought we was in love with someone back then), theres a diffrence from middle school love, and theres a diffrence between high school love. Theres not a much diffrence of college love from the real world.

 

But all of that doesnt count if you both are mature, which means you already in that adult stage, "mentally" i know im in the adult stage already becuz i can relate to grown people, i got friends that i hang out with that are 22 or 25 and on up, and its becuz im real and true and mature.

 

So it doesnt count towards me.

 

And i didnt mean i know alot people who get back together and break up, i actually know people who are married that dated in high school.

[BannaBee57]

Yes, but what I'm saying is that breaking up and getting back together in high school or a couple years following is very different from meeting someone in you 20's or beyond and breaking up and getting back together with them. It just seems that it's less likely to happen in these situations from what I've seen and been reading.

 

And yes, college relationships and real world adult relationships are very different.

[the_alchemyst]

I have a question!

 

Did my relationship qualify as a HS relationship or as an adult one?

 

We started dating at 17. Now it's over. We're 20.

 

Just curious.

[Krying]

Congratulations Mr 41st! Hope it goes well for you. I can't help feel it will be rough on you though so don't let your guard down. The quality your girl has in being able to go through 40odd boyfriends in one year isn't one that's on my list lol. But different strokes for different folks. And, may I add, I don't believe at all she did not sleep with any of them. It's your life. Don't ignore the warning signs either and trust your gut instinct.

[Guest]

second chances never work out. It's hopeless. People need to quit being so cheery and positive about second chances.

[Krying]

I hate to be posting in a rather un-positive light, but you do realize your ex ex went out with 40+ in one year. Her getting back with you is not really a major cause for celebration when you think about it. But from the manner on your posts, I'm not even sure why you posted here to be honest. Nothing anyone said about the matter seemed to sink in. I do wish you well and as I've said before, despite being Mr 41st, a second chance is something a lot of us want too. So good luck and hopefully it will not end in tears for you.