Guyinlove Posted November 30, 2006 Share Posted November 30, 2006 Well...back in August I posted here about my situation with my ex, at the time we hadn't spoken for months, she was ignoring me in the hope that I would let her go, and I was being driven stir crazy over the whole thing. It's now November, and back in September, I had just started to forget about her, and do everything to make myself a better person if I had any hope of getting her back. Late September she came on MSN and started talking to me...which was very surprising. Our conversation got very flirty and we were having a lot of fun, like when we first met. Two days later she came to speak to me again, but didn't stay long because she was tired, so I was starting to get more confident that maybe I could win her over. Two days later, I think she came to speak to me again but I overslept and missed her, so she posted a nice comment on myspace. That was the last time I heard from her until this past Monday (Nov 27th). The Monday before I sent her an e-mail asking her if she was ok, and that I would love to catch up again, and she sent me a nice e-mail back, and later on that day when she was online, viewed my myspace. I e-mailed her back (which she hasn't replied to), but did get to speak to her this morning via myspace IM, and again we had a nice conversation about her getting ready for exams and all that stuff. After the year the both of us have had, i'm just glad that we are both talking civilly again, and even flirting some of the time. But I don't know how to read her, I don't know if she wants to get back together with me or not, and I don't know if I should ask her out again in case I destroy the friendship we've been building back up. It's her birthday on December 11th, should I ask her out then? I have done something special for the day which I think she will like, but I just don't know what to do. Any help would be greatly appreciated...thanks Guyinlove Link to post Share on other sites
BannaBee57 Posted November 30, 2006 Share Posted November 30, 2006 I would wait and continue to feel her out. If she is contacting you more than you are contacting her then it is a good sign. If you guys are hanging out a lot and you know for sure that there isn't another guy in the picture then this is also a good sign. I would do something nice for her on her birthday, but don't ask her to be your girlfriend again. Just have fun and show her (don't tell her) that you still care a lot about her. I think in this situation you need to continue to take it really slow. How long were you guys together for and what made you break up? Also, what do you think made her contact you after all these months? Did she say she would like a friendship with you or anything like that? This kind of stuff makes a huge difference on whether you guys will get a second chance. Good luck! Link to post Share on other sites
Lisa32 Posted November 30, 2006 Share Posted November 30, 2006 She wouldn't bother with you if she wasn't interested. If she's flirting, she's interested. I'd ask her out if I were you. Link to post Share on other sites
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