WhiteKnight Posted December 2, 2006 Share Posted December 2, 2006 Hey all. Just thought to ask for some friendship advice. In a chatroom that I use, I say hello to one of my ex-gf's. I waited for any response for like 20 mins and she didn't say a word back to me and left. Do you think she's ignoring me? My relationship with her ended like 14 months ago, she broke up with me and ended the relationship. I forgive her but I like to have the friendship going alright between us. Also one of her friends did warn me not to contact her. I was acting neutral, so I was wondering how things are going with my ex-gf. However, there was one thing she asked me recently about sometime last week. She did ask me to remove her 'company' website from one of my forum profiles and I raised an eyebrow and ignored it for two days to come back to it later. Her basic reason was that she claimed it isn't my website, and she didn't want anyone to contact me about it. Is it something like she cares about me or something else? The thing is though, I had that website on my profile because I was supporting her company. Not like being intrusive or anything to her. Do you think I made her uncomfortable? In the end I had removed the website, without replying to her. Just to see what her reaction will be, but nothing came so I was puzzled. I did have her blocked on my msn for a long time but I'm willing to be civil and act like friends with her. (She still does have me unblocked for a long time anyways and still has me on her msn list) She hasn't spoken to me at all in the past few days, so... should I just sit and wait? Link to post Share on other sites
CardPlay3r Posted December 2, 2006 Share Posted December 2, 2006 You should e-mail her and ask her to be straight with you as to how she wants your relationship to be. Many times people don't have the guts to tell people straight up they want to cease contact with them.... Maybe it's not that but just e-mail her telling her you'd like to remain friends, and if she doesn't she should just tell you straight up... Link to post Share on other sites
Author WhiteKnight Posted December 3, 2006 Author Share Posted December 3, 2006 Yea I agree CardPlay3r, I hate when people torture me with mind games. It sickens me. While a couple days back. I did have a word with her just recently, and she seemed like acting quite quite weird to be honest. She did not answer about my question nor did she make a point as to why about it. Perhaps she is avoiding it? Then she signed out any of the chat programs we use all of a sudden and did not say 'goodbye' about it. I'm not blocked by her, cause I double check with the programs that I use. And at the time I had a friend of hers talking to me and I asked her did she she sign out from all of her chat programs as well. And she did. So we don't know. Sounds like to me there is some avoidance going on with her. Either that, she is not talking. Link to post Share on other sites
CardPlay3r Posted December 3, 2006 Share Posted December 3, 2006 Well again...e-mail her asking it straight what's going on...and say you'll accept her decision either way but you need to know straight, without the games. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted December 3, 2006 Share Posted December 3, 2006 She hasn't spoken to me at all in the past few days, so... should I just sit and wait? Sit & wait for what? More humilation and degradation? Forget about her and move on and find another woman. Jesus ****ing Christ man! Link to post Share on other sites
Pyro Posted December 3, 2006 Share Posted December 3, 2006 Hey all. Just thought to ask for some friendship advice. In a chatroom that I use, I say hello to one of my ex-gf's. I waited for any response for like 20 mins and she didn't say a word back to me and left. Do you think she's ignoring me? My relationship with her ended like 14 months ago, she broke up with me and ended the relationship. I forgive her but I like to have the friendship going alright between us. Also one of her friends did warn me not to contact her. I was acting neutral, so I was wondering how things are going with my ex-gf. However, there was one thing she asked me recently about sometime last week. She did ask me to remove her 'company' website from one of my forum profiles and I raised an eyebrow and ignored it for two days to come back to it later. Her basic reason was that she claimed it isn't my website, and she didn't want anyone to contact me about it. Is it something like she cares about me or something else? The thing is though, I had that website on my profile because I was supporting her company. Not like being intrusive or anything to her. Do you think I made her uncomfortable? In the end I had removed the website, without replying to her. Just to see what her reaction will be, but nothing came so I was puzzled. I did have her blocked on my msn for a long time but I'm willing to be civil and act like friends with her. (She still does have me unblocked for a long time anyways and still has me on her msn list) She hasn't spoken to me at all in the past few days, so... should I just sit and wait? She is your ex for a reason. You shouldn't have a reason to want to contact her. The best thing for you is to forget about her and move on. Sitting and waiting is only going to prevent you from moving on with your life. Link to post Share on other sites
Author WhiteKnight Posted December 3, 2006 Author Share Posted December 3, 2006 Well I have moved on you guys, I'm already attached with someone else. Yet she doesn't know I have a new gf anyways, didn't want to hurt her feelings, unless she had already found out. Meh *shrugs* I don't know or really care, if she wants the friendship or not. That's really entirely up to her now because the ball is in her park. That's why I said I have to wait and see... As for the email part. I will try and do it again next week, give her time to provide a straight answer. Link to post Share on other sites
Author WhiteKnight Posted December 3, 2006 Author Share Posted December 3, 2006 Well she contacted me and we spoke on msn... didn't bother asking about what she was doing or why she did not reply to me. In the end this is how the convo went... WK: Hello Mrs V: hello WK: You called for me and asked my help? Giving rep points to people eh? Alright... that's cool but who were you thinking of? Mrs V:some that gave me points, why? WK: *shrugs* Nothing, just thought it was rather weird of you to ask me something like that Mrs V: well i didn't know how that’s why I asked WK: yea that's cool WK: anyways I ran into a few people on the clan who I was with today, kinda was funny Mrs V: oh... WK: heh yea, our definition of having fun was to everyone kill me first lol Mrs V: i didn't see anyone on the server WK: Cause you weren't around at the time that I was online... Mrs V: what time was it? WK: Hmmm, around about 12noon ur time WK: I was there for a good 2 - 3 hours Mrs V: I wasn't around WK: Myself and few of my mates were there, having a ball WK: Funny, they were trying to avoid a lot of people >.> Mrs V: what you mean? btw you seen master of mischief? WK: Heh your husband hell no... Or were you referring to ur other friend online *smirks* and nope I have not scene him either Mrs V: er husband? lol he doesn't cause mischief Mrs V: i only meant my former master, Mr K. WK: Oh come on... your hubby is the master of all mischief... But yea alright, I’ll consider that Mr K loves creating mischief WK: Alright, anyways, look.... I enjoy talking to you but I should take my time and get things ready for tonights training. That's if anyone wants to come. See ya later Man after that, I just went offline on MSN and blocked her. Seems like to me she is creating a lot of mischief and is not loyal to her other half. Pretty much I just walked away, I was purely disgusted and didn't want to appear to be jealous, so I left her alone. I think next time I will tell her that I had enough of people trying to make me jealous. It makes me so annoyed. Link to post Share on other sites
anna13 Posted December 3, 2006 Share Posted December 3, 2006 I would just say , dont talk to her ,dont talk about her and don't think about her . she will contact you if she really wants to talk to you . I have been there and done that , now if I thinks someone is playing games with me , i just cut their line( don't talk to them at all ) , because I dont like dealing with stupid cr** anymore. just move forward , you will be a happier person . Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted December 3, 2006 Share Posted December 3, 2006 please see post #5, i don't feel like typing it out again Link to post Share on other sites
Author WhiteKnight Posted December 3, 2006 Author Share Posted December 3, 2006 Yea I cut my loses and fled. If she wants to know why I left and why I didn't speak to her. I will truly give my answer then. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted December 3, 2006 Share Posted December 3, 2006 Yea I cut my loses and fled. If she wants to know why I left and why I didn't speak to her. I will truly give my answer then. ha ha ha WK...she has already won the game. Link to post Share on other sites
Author WhiteKnight Posted December 3, 2006 Author Share Posted December 3, 2006 ha ha ha WK...she has already won the game. Not exactly. I have told the husband just a minute ago who she was cheating with and I gave all the information to him and his close friend. Now that my friend is 'revenge on the plate served cold' Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted December 3, 2006 Share Posted December 3, 2006 Not exactly. I have told the husband just a minute ago who she was cheating with and I gave all the information to him and his close friend. Now that my friend is 'revenge on the plate served cold' Link to post Share on other sites
Author WhiteKnight Posted December 3, 2006 Author Share Posted December 3, 2006 Heh. I appreciate your sarcasm my friend Anyways, chapter closed. Link to post Share on other sites
Antheia Posted December 3, 2006 Share Posted December 3, 2006 Sorry dude, it's so completly obvious that she doesn't want you. Link to post Share on other sites
Author WhiteKnight Posted December 3, 2006 Author Share Posted December 3, 2006 Yea well I kinda gathered that when she wanted the friendship with her, it was 'doomed to fail' anyways. Oh well, life goes on. Link to post Share on other sites
Antheia Posted December 3, 2006 Share Posted December 3, 2006 WK, Are you from Melbourne by any chance? Link to post Share on other sites
Author WhiteKnight Posted December 3, 2006 Author Share Posted December 3, 2006 Not originally, I used to be from Queensland before I moved down to Melbourne to settle down there. But I have been travelling around the place. I'm currrently doing a Uni degree over somewhere in Brisbane, Queensland for the next 18months full time, but during the Uni breaks I go back home to Melbourne sometimes to see my folks or friends, whenever I get the chance. Speaking of which I do look forward to Xmas Link to post Share on other sites
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