IpAncA Posted December 2, 2006 Share Posted December 2, 2006 I don't see how someone being sexy has or should have anything to do with their income. They could make only 40k a year and not be sexy. Everyone has their own view of what's sexy and what's not. It's funny to me that the more money someone makes, the more chances they have of dating someone in my experience. If someone makes 80k and girls know about it, their going to try and date him. Link to post Share on other sites
Green Posted December 2, 2006 Share Posted December 2, 2006 my guess is most girls find the guys in their age group the sexiest as far as who they are going to persue a relationship with. I mean most 20 year old girls arnt going to find 40 year old men the sexiest. and most 50 year old women arnt going to find 20 year old guys to be there ideal of what sexy is. All in all if a person was in great shape there entire life they are going to look there best in their twenties. Link to post Share on other sites
BARBGURL Posted December 2, 2006 Share Posted December 2, 2006 80K? My minimum is 120K!!!!! Just kidding. Money means very little when it comes to sexy. Naturally I would not want someone who is umemployed, lazy, and intends to sponge off me! ( As I would not expect a man to want that either ) However, if he makes a small salary, but is self assured, has charisma, and carries himself pridefully - he's sexy to me. I kind of like a few grey hairs and wrinkles too - just not on me!! Link to post Share on other sites
johan Posted December 2, 2006 Share Posted December 2, 2006 ...a man worth being with digs out that sucker and faces it head on 'til the death. that's the only way to grab life, johan. I agree with you, BlueTuesday. That's a lot to ask though. Especially from guys like Rooster and me. Right, Rooster? We're pretty much screwed when you get right down to it. Link to post Share on other sites
IpAncA Posted December 2, 2006 Share Posted December 2, 2006 80K? My minimum is 120K!!!!! Just kidding. Money means very little when it comes to sexy. Naturally I would not want someone who is umemployed, lazy, and intends to sponge off me! ( As I would not expect a man to want that either ) However, if he makes a small salary, but is self assured, has charisma, and carries himself pridefully - he's sexy to me. I kind of like a few grey hairs and wrinkles too - just not on me!! Yep I would agree. Link to post Share on other sites
blind_otter Posted December 2, 2006 Share Posted December 2, 2006 When does a guy typically hit his peak from where you all stand? 30-40-something. But I like a select few much older men, more for their charisma than their looks. Link to post Share on other sites
Prise Posted December 2, 2006 Share Posted December 2, 2006 he's got some sexy wrinkles around the eyes (bedroom eyes) and he's tall and strong, but not in a gym-rat sort of way...more of a huggable teddy bear....a little smooshy around the middle is okay and much nicer to cuddle with. Awesome! You must have quite a few from whom to choose from. Link to post Share on other sites
Rooster_DAR Posted December 3, 2006 Share Posted December 3, 2006 I agree with you, BlueTuesday. That's a lot to ask though. Especially from guys like Rooster and me. Right, Rooster? We're pretty much screwed when you get right down to it. I guess I'm confused with your posts Johan:confused: What fundamental flaw do we have that would not enable us to move past the problem as you stated? Uhh....I'm confused. Link to post Share on other sites
johan Posted December 3, 2006 Share Posted December 3, 2006 I guess I'm confused with your posts Johan:confused: What fundamental flaw do we have that would not enable us to move past the problem as you stated? Uhh....I'm confused. ha ha. Just kidding with you. Seemed funny at the time. It's probably only me who has the major mystery flaws. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted December 3, 2006 Share Posted December 3, 2006 Funny how not one woman brought up income in connection with sexy, yet the perception is out there that income makes a guy sexy. what women SAY and what they DO are two totally different things... Link to post Share on other sites
luvtoto Posted December 3, 2006 Share Posted December 3, 2006 It's probably only me who has the major mystery flaws. What are you talking about? Flaws? Come on, Johan! Seriously. Link to post Share on other sites
BareGoddess Posted December 3, 2006 Share Posted December 3, 2006 what women SAY and what they DO are two totally different things... So what's so wrong with wanting AND getting the "whole package" if you can? Link to post Share on other sites
IpAncA Posted December 3, 2006 Share Posted December 3, 2006 what women SAY and what they DO are two totally different things... Ahhhhh...I can't believe I'm saying this but that is true. But the same goes for guys too. :laugh: No win situation. Link to post Share on other sites
Pyro Posted December 3, 2006 Share Posted December 3, 2006 Ahhhhh...I can't believe I'm saying this but that is true. But the same goes for guys too. :laugh: No win situation. So in other words, we are all hypocrites and neither side is better than the other? Link to post Share on other sites
luvtoto Posted December 3, 2006 Share Posted December 3, 2006 what women SAY and what they DO are two totally different things... Alpha, why do you have such generalized statements about women? When I was dating my last guy, if he bought the movie tickets, I would buy the popcorn. It's always that way when I date. It wasn't about how much money he had. Link to post Share on other sites
johan Posted December 3, 2006 Share Posted December 3, 2006 I think it's not really true. There are some people who know exactly what they want. And they know how to put what they want in to words. And they can recognize it when they see it. Women and men. They've been in the shoes of people like Alpha describes and they've learned there's nothing worth having in if it can only be made interesting by acting manipulative. On the other hand there are some people who thrive on psychotic, unpredictable, sometimes mean, neglectful and abusive behavior. There are some who like to receive it and some who like to get it. It depends, I think, on how you were raised to view people and on what kind of lessons you were taught by your lovers. These are the things that I value in myself: Strength Consistency Fairness Respect Humor Intelligence No matter what anyone else says, that's what I have to offer. And it won't come in a package wrapped up to look like a prick. If that's what it takes to attract some women, then they can go be with someone else. I have no time or patience for college girl games. Link to post Share on other sites
BareGoddess Posted December 3, 2006 Share Posted December 3, 2006 I think it's not really true. There are some people who know exactly what they want. And they know how to put what they want in to words. And they can recognize it when they see it. Women and men. They've been in the shoes of people like Alpha describes and they've learned there's nothing worth having in if it can only be made interesting by acting manipulative. On the other hand there are some people who thrive on psychotic, unpredictable, sometimes mean, neglectful and abusive behavior. There are some who like to receive it and some who like to get it. It depends, I think, on how you were raised to view people and on what kind of lessons you were taught by your lovers. These are the things that I value in myself: Strength Consistency Fairness Respect Humor Intelligence No matter what anyone else says, that's what I have to offer. And it won't come in a package wrapped up to look like a prick. If that's what it takes to attract some women, then they can go be with someone else. I have no time or patience for college girl games. What else do they say? Anyway, all kidding aside very well said. Especially that last part. Anyway, what a lot of men don't realize, from an intelligent woman's point of view anyway, is that we see right through that BS. It doesn't work. It only works on the messed up ones who one are too dumb to realize it's an act and two are so messed up themselves that they thrive on all the uncessary drama and games. Basically, you reap what you sow. Garbage in...garbage out. Link to post Share on other sites
Pyro Posted December 3, 2006 Share Posted December 3, 2006 What else do they say? Anyway, all kidding aside very well said. Especially that last part. Anyway, what a lot of men don't realize, from an intelligent woman's point of view anyway, is that we see right through that BS. It doesn't work. It only works on the messed up ones who one are too dumb to realize it's an act and two are so messed up themselves that they thrive on all the uncessary drama and games. Basically, you reap what you sow. Garbage in...garbage out. So true. Link to post Share on other sites
johan Posted December 3, 2006 Share Posted December 3, 2006 What else do they say? Sometimes they say "I have to wash my hair tonight." Other times they say things like, "you're such a nice guy, I hope we can still be friends." Sometimes they don't say anything, no matter how many times I call in one night. Link to post Share on other sites
luvtoto Posted December 3, 2006 Share Posted December 3, 2006 It only works on the messed up ones who one are too dumb to realize it's an act and two are so messed up themselves that they thrive on all the uncessary drama and games. Yup!! (post to short) Link to post Share on other sites
BareGoddess Posted December 3, 2006 Share Posted December 3, 2006 So true. Thanks, Rid! Link to post Share on other sites
BareGoddess Posted December 3, 2006 Share Posted December 3, 2006 Sometimes they say "I have to wash my hair tonight." Other times they say things like, "you're such a nice guy, I hope we can still be friends." Sometimes they don't say anything, no matter how many times I call in one night. Uhm...I think I'd stop calling. Link to post Share on other sites
Pyro Posted December 3, 2006 Share Posted December 3, 2006 What else do they say? Anyway, all kidding aside very well said. Especially that last part. Anyway, what a lot of men don't realize, from an intelligent woman's point of view anyway, is that we see right through that BS. It doesn't work. It only works on the messed up ones who one are too dumb to realize it's an act and two are so messed up themselves that they thrive on all the uncessary drama and games. Basically, you reap what you sow. Garbage in...garbage out. Its just sad because what are these guys trying to accomplish? Do they lack confidence or self-esteem in themselves for who they really are that they have to degrade to BS and childish games? Honest to God, every woman that has sparked interest in me is due to me being myself. No charades, no games, no lies, just 100% genuine Riddler. Link to post Share on other sites
BareGoddess Posted December 3, 2006 Share Posted December 3, 2006 Its just sad because what are these guys trying to accomplish? Do they lack confidence or self-esteem in themselves for who they really are that they have to degrade to BS and childish games? Honest to God, every woman that has sparked interest in me is due to me being myself. No charades, no games, no lies, just 100% genuine Riddler. You're absolutely right. In fact, most guys DO play games and it's the ones who DIDN'T who always stood out for me. They were the ones I became interested in. They were the ones who showed a little bit of insecurity but were confident at the same time. They were the ones who told me they liked me and didn't try to act aloof. They were the ones who called me after a date and said "I had the BEST time with you." Now, that's MY kind of man! That's the kind of man I married. Link to post Share on other sites
Rooster_DAR Posted December 3, 2006 Share Posted December 3, 2006 You're absolutely right. In fact, most guys DO play games and it's the ones who DIDN'T who always stood out for me. They were the ones I became interested in. They were the ones who showed a little bit of insecurity but were confident at the same time. They were the ones who told me they liked me and didn't try to act aloof. They were the ones who called me after a date and said "I had the BEST time with you." Now, that's MY kind of man! That's the kind of man I married. This shows that there is a least some diverstity between women, and they are not all the same when it comes to what they like. Good news;) Link to post Share on other sites
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