sungrl Posted December 2, 2006 Share Posted December 2, 2006 Should i worry? I stopped going through my b/f's phone a lot which is a major improvemnt. I have to admit--i sometimes still go in it but definitely not often. Well yesterday was the once in awhile and i saw a new number in his phone and it was a girl's cell. Should i suspect him of something? We definitely shouldn't be meeting new people. Or should i just assume that if he has it, it's for something innocent. I really wanted to ask him by pretending to casually go in it with him there and then just ask. The truth is i saw another number and that morning i pretended i wanted to change something and then asked who the second number was and he gave me an answer thats its a business(but the first name of the business is a girl's name). It was true but i didnt get to ask about the second one. I just kind of thought it would be weird for me to say who is this, and then who is this? You know what i mean? Obviously if he were doing something, he would delete calls from her or to her. Should i worry? Try to find a way to ask or just forget? I have heard some people say the same thing and it turns out they were being cheated on... Link to post Share on other sites
norajane Posted December 2, 2006 Share Posted December 2, 2006 Why are you snooping into his phone? Is there some reason you think he might be cheating? If you have no other reason for suspecting that he's cheating, then I say forget the phone number. If there are many unexplained absences, furtive whispered phone calls, phone ringing at odds hours, etc., then you might have something to worry about. Link to post Share on other sites
CardPlay3r Posted December 3, 2006 Share Posted December 3, 2006 Uhmm....why should you "definitely not be meeting new people"? What, you get all jealous if he has girl friends? Are you THAT controlling? Geez...that is so out of line! Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted December 3, 2006 Share Posted December 3, 2006 Other than the phone numbers, is there anything else that is making you think he's cheating on you? can I ask? Have you ever just talked to a guy? Harmless conversation, maybe just a nice chat - No hidden agenda's...It IS possible to have opposite sex buddy's and aquaintances, where cheating isn't on anybody's mind. Also, you need to stop snooping in his phone. That's what is making you go crazy! if you don't trust him, then talk to him about your own insecurities, but don't accuse him of cheating on you because you've been snooping. Sorry to sound harsh, but you're assuming the worst of him. How is your relationship with him otherwise? Link to post Share on other sites
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