mozemate Posted December 6, 2006 Share Posted December 6, 2006 I don't know what to do... About five weeks ago my bf sends me a text saying he's had an accident (Amongst other bad luck), so we should just be mates, after he's spent all summer getting me back, we were together for 6 yrs, he has some issues but we were working through them, I always stood by him and understood his issues. I truelly believed we were fine again, then two weeks went by and I knew something was wrong, so called and called, he ignored me for two weeks then says he's had this accident with his face etc and we should be maes in the future. I told him mates doesn't work for me.......that's it,I have heard nothing for five weeks, what's that about???? How can he just move on with no real reason??? I'm not contacting him, he has treated me bad in the past but hey ho, we all go through ****. Do you think he'll contact me at some point? Thanks Link to post Share on other sites
HeadlessZebra Posted December 6, 2006 Share Posted December 6, 2006 Have you seen him in person after the accident? For all you know, the accident might have disfigured his face badly so that he is ashamed to be seen by you. I mean, he did say the accident did something to his face... that's what I got from it, and that's what I suspect. Call him, or better yet, pay a visit to his mother or friends and ask them what's going on. I know people who have been disfigured, paralyzed, etc. in an accident and subsequently broke up with their bf/gf out of shame. It's so sad. Meanwhile, the bf/gf wants to be there for him/her and loves them no matter what, but the injured person pushes them away. I hope this is not the case with your bf. Link to post Share on other sites
Author mozemate Posted December 6, 2006 Author Share Posted December 6, 2006 Thanks so much... I completely understand you, I think about it all the time, but he can be very manipulative and call me a coward but I cannot be thrown or pushed away anymore to be honest. He hurt me and I had my guard up for the time we got back together. He was horrible to his best mate, cocky etc, he seemed fine and I would imagine his mum would have said something to me if he were that badly injured. HE KNOWS I love him no matter what, even if you turned around and told me had someone else, I love him still the same.I got the feeling he was more crying out for secuirty, but please undertsand I have never done anything to wavour that, never even looked at another guy etc, so he has no reason and must learn to trust that I would support him to the bitter end. Ig he just wanted it over he would have just said right?, not even bother rellinbg me about his face being smashed up, trouble is, rightly or wrongly i was SO angry with him when I received that txt, I'd worried sick for about 9 days..... All I can say is I do love him, but he does have issues and unfortunately I need to be careful. Thanks so much again. Link to post Share on other sites
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