BareGoddess Posted December 7, 2006 Share Posted December 7, 2006 So she calls and leaves a message for saying: I don't know why you are doing this, things didn't work out and we are trying to be friends. It was an amicable split, we just could not work things out. She is texting me back saying now I'm just trying to hurt her because I am hurt. B.S. Don't let her rile you up. Tell her you want it to be amicable too but the ring does not belong to her. It's rightfully yours and she's trying to hurt YOU not the other way around! Wow, didn't you know what her character was before you bought her this ring? I mean really...how did she hide what kind of person she was from you? It's amazing to me. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted December 7, 2006 Share Posted December 7, 2006 Montana seems to be the only state that wouldn't require your ring to be given back I think in Montana it would be a moot point A_C since only 4 women live there Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted December 7, 2006 Share Posted December 7, 2006 So she calls and leaves a message for saying: I don't know why you are doing this, things didn't work out and we are trying to be friends. It was an amicable split, we just could not work things out. She is texting me back saying now I'm just trying to hurt her because I am hurt. B.S. Oh. And she's not trying to hurt you by keeping the ring. WHY on earth would she want a ring which is going to be a constant reminder of you. What she 'could have had' but won't because of her own selfish actions! Amicable and respectful is giving you the ring the back! Hate to say it, but she's gonna sell that ring for $$. Why else would she hang onto it? Link to post Share on other sites
Buttaflyy Posted December 7, 2006 Share Posted December 7, 2006 If I were you I'd break into the house when she's gone and take it. F**k her. Exactly! Go get your ring! She has a lot of nerve. IT'S YOURS, DEMAND IT BACK! Link to post Share on other sites
Buttaflyy Posted December 7, 2006 Share Posted December 7, 2006 So she calls and leaves a message for saying: I don't know why you are doing this, things didn't work out and we are trying to be friends. It was an amicable split, we just could not work things out. She is texting me back saying now I'm just trying to hurt her because I am hurt. B.S. Who cares what she thinks?! Is she still wearing it? I'd report it stolen, by HER! Link to post Share on other sites
HeadlessZebra Posted December 7, 2006 Share Posted December 7, 2006 So she calls and leaves a message for saying: I don't know why you are doing this, things didn't work out and we are trying to be friends. It was an amicable split, we just could not work things out. She is texting me back saying now I'm just trying to hurt her because I am hurt. B.S. HAHAHAHAHA :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: WHAT A MANIPULATIVE BITCH It takes one to know one, I've pulled that same kind of line a million times when an ex wanted to keep something that was joint property or somehow use his clout against me post-breakup. GET THAT RING, ROOSTER!!! And that lien on the house too! Better future money than no money at all! Link to post Share on other sites
dgiirl Posted December 7, 2006 Share Posted December 7, 2006 WTF, this just pisses me off!! 11K on a ring is insane in the first place. My exh only got me a wedding ring, no engagement ring, worth $200! And she wont return it?? OMG, be thankful she's out of your life! She sounds like one greedy materialistic bitch and nothing will be good enough for her. Talk to a lawyer and get that ring back. It's good money you can use for your own future. Mind you, if you can afford a 11k ring, I assume you are not too concerned with future investments, but still, donate the 11k to a charity (dgiirl's charity if you're so inclined lol), anything but not her! If she REALLY wants to keep the ring, tell her she can but you expect payment on the ring. Link to post Share on other sites
LaughMachine Posted December 7, 2006 Share Posted December 7, 2006 Get that dang old ring back and get away as far as possible. What a stupid little witch sersiouly. You bought that ring not only for her but to sympolize your marriage or being engadged. GET IT BACK!!!!!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
LaughMachine Posted December 7, 2006 Share Posted December 7, 2006 Rooser please tell me you are not trying to reconcile with this woman/witch/skank/whore. Please save your dignity and save your dang money. You don't want someone like that any way. Don't try to hurt her who cares....the hurt will only be dumped on you in the end... Link to post Share on other sites
Author Rooster_DAR Posted December 7, 2006 Author Share Posted December 7, 2006 Wow, didn't you know what her character was before you bought her this ring? I mean really...how did she hide what kind of person she was from you? It's amazing to me. She was a totally different person before she went out of town for 5 months. When she came back it's like she was a different person, she seemed self centered, controlling, and very selfish. She blew all of her $35,000.00 she made working out of town and run all of her credit cards up. I tried to make her understand that she was experiencing some kind of problem, but once again I got the same old confusing information from her. It's like I was cast into some corner as the bad guy and suddenly it was all about her. As it turns out, I believe she spent all of her/our money on trips out of town and small vacation with him. She still is trying to tell me there was nothing going on before I moved out a few months ago, I know better than this cause I caught him calling her cellphone long long ago. She is the term "gold digger" in the truest sense now, she was not like this along time ago. Be both came from being poor and living in a shack, to owning a nice home and lavish antiques and furniture. She changed, I am the same old down to earth kind of guy. For her, it's all about what kind of material things you have and how much money you can spend. I really see who she is now. I gave her two weeks to turn over the rings, then I'm taking her to court. Thanks Link to post Share on other sites
My Fair Katie Posted December 7, 2006 Share Posted December 7, 2006 Hate to say it, but she's gonna sell that ring for $$. Why else would she hang onto it? I hate to be the cynic, but her reluctance to return it makes me think she may have *already* sold it. If she did and you do go to court you should still get monetary damages (assuming you win). Good luck. Link to post Share on other sites
LaughMachine Posted December 7, 2006 Share Posted December 7, 2006 I hope to god she didn't return those rings and got money off of it? If so I hope even more legal action is taken place? could there be? Either way if you don't get the money back, you'll gain more by having her out of your life. Though I hope you get that money back, oh gee what a waste!! Link to post Share on other sites
dgiirl Posted December 7, 2006 Share Posted December 7, 2006 Could she possibly have a drug or addiction problem? Spending 35K in such a short amount would indicate a serious problem. She sounds like she's on a self destruct mode. I'd advise you to get all legal matters done asap, or atleast talk to a lawyer TODAY for atleast an initial consultation! Are there any joint assets/bank accounts/credit cards? You need to protect yourself legally asap and make sure she cannot ruin YOUR credit while she's ruining hers. Link to post Share on other sites
tanbark813 Posted December 7, 2006 Share Posted December 7, 2006 I gave her two weeks to turn over the rings, then I'm taking her to court. No offense, man, but stop being such a pussy. Take her to court today. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted December 7, 2006 Share Posted December 7, 2006 No offense, man, but stop being such a pussy. Take her to court today. man TB813...if he wasn't such a pussy he wouldn't be in this situation in the first place. man this just disgusts me. there is so much work left to be done to educate men about women. Link to post Share on other sites
dgiirl Posted December 7, 2006 Share Posted December 7, 2006 man TB813...if he wasn't such a pussy he wouldn't be in this situation in the first place. man this just disgusts me. there is so much work left to be done to educate men about women. Not ALL women are like this! This pisses me off just as much as it disgusts you. Link to post Share on other sites
LaughMachine Posted December 7, 2006 Share Posted December 7, 2006 alphamale? what the are you talking about? With or with out him being a pussy, he still would have been in this mess? He got her the ring when she was somebody different. After that It's hard to grasp the fact that someone you love has changed so dramatically. Now he is taking his time and being a pussy would only meen he took her back.And no not all women are like this..... Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted December 7, 2006 Share Posted December 7, 2006 alphamale? what the are you talking about? ..... don't give me any lip LM Link to post Share on other sites
LaughMachine Posted December 7, 2006 Share Posted December 7, 2006 man TB813...if he wasn't such a pussy he wouldn't be in this situation in the first place. man this just disgusts me. there is so much work left to be done to educate men about women. I think it should be more along the lines of " people being educated of both Men and women. Both our sexes have disgusting ( fit our sex type) traits....But that doesn't meen Women are worse than Men. It's equalised my friend...It doesn't meen every girl you meet will be like that. Screw the sterotypes and the sex. Were all human...with ugly nasty vile traits. haha Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted December 7, 2006 Share Posted December 7, 2006 her reluctance to return it makes me think she may have *already* sold it. MFK may be on to something here Link to post Share on other sites
LaughMachine Posted December 7, 2006 Share Posted December 7, 2006 don't give me any lip LM seriously though how hard is it for you to actually THINK the right way instead of jumping to arrogant hard headness terms. Hard I bet Link to post Share on other sites
Pyro Posted December 7, 2006 Share Posted December 7, 2006 seriously though how hard is it for you to actually THINK the right way instead of jumping to arrogant hard headness terms. Hard I bet I have pretty much lost all hope in that. Link to post Share on other sites
dropdeadlegs Posted December 7, 2006 Share Posted December 7, 2006 The ring is yours and that she won't give it back is beyond me. I don't understand wanting the ring when she broke the engagement. Now if you HAD married and ultimately divorced, of course the ring would be hers to keep, but nobody is arguing that. Cheating is just so ugly. Not only would I get the ring back no matter how I had to go about it, I might fork out the cash, even advance my credit card or something, to take out a full page ad in the local paper detailing the infidelity and this woman's nerve to keep the ring. It's not libel as long as it's the truth, right? Embarrassment can go a long way with folks. It might even be cheaper than going through the legal system. I wonder mow much a billboard on a major thoroughfare could cost short term? Flyers all over town on bright neon paper wouldn't be too expensive. I have some "friends" that could take care of this, but she might suffer some physical pain in the process;) I liked the idea of impersonating a lawyer, but given her background she might catch on. I still think paying one (a real one) to write a demand letter could work. Since the relationship is over, she may just be trying to see if she CAN get away with keeping the pricey bauble. There's always Judge Judy...not sure she can go over $5000 either. But on that note, I thought you could go civil suit, just not small claims court for more than $5000. Jurisdictions vary I'm sure. Lessons learned the hard way are the hardest pills to swallow - I sure wish you had posted before giving it back to her. Good Luck! Link to post Share on other sites
Buttaflyy Posted December 7, 2006 Share Posted December 7, 2006 I sure wish you had posted before giving it back to her. Good Luck! Good point. I think that's why she came back anyway. To get the ring! Link to post Share on other sites
HeadlessZebra Posted December 7, 2006 Share Posted December 7, 2006 Good point. I think that's why she came back anyway. To get the ring! Doesn't take a genius to figure that one out. Link to post Share on other sites
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